Sunday 20 September 2015

Encourage yourself and dont accept pity

 
When adversity and challenges strikes you, you need every tool available to prevail, but most people do not possess the habits that equip them for challenging times. Of course, nothing perfectly prepares us for the storms of life, but we can certainly develop practices that make room for us to grow and triumph in the midst of very challenging situations. Many of us also need a tweaked perspective on adversity, so that the challenges do not completely derail us from the work God seeks to do in our lives.
1st Samuel 30:6
  "And David was greatly distressed; for the people spake of stoning him, because the soul of all the people was grieved, every man for his sons and for his daughters: but David encouraged himself in the LORD his God."
David encouraged himself in the face of adversity.For David,it was worse because he was their leader and his men were consumed by grief but David encouraged them.

1. You cannot avoid adversity in this life, even though many try. 

Jesus warned us that in this life trouble would come our way. Intense, even seemingly unbearable circumstances will confront the people of God. We are not exempt from adversity. In fact, we are often a target for adversity, simply because the world is filled with the air of resistance to the King that rules our hearts.
Too often, western culture hates adversity and avoids it all costs.
We spend our life avoiding pain and escaping to pleasure.
But just like an athlete going to the gym, adversity needs to be the workout center for the believer, not the plague to run from.

2. Satan uses adversity to wipe you out. 

Satan would love to see you wiped out and destroyed during adversity. He will often orchestrate thoughts and interactions with the clear intent to shake your spiritual standing. Jesus warned Peter that satan would come to sift him. The prayer of our Lord was not that the sifting would be removed, but that Peter would take what satan brought against him and turn it into a mountain moving experience.

3. God is looking for the overcomer to be built inside of you.

God is not the author of evil, nor is He trying to put calamity on you, as many think. Too often, our reaction to adversity is usually, “Why God?” and “Why me?” Although God is patient with that question, we all know the “why me” questions never move heaven.
God is not authoring destruction, but we must understand that God has placed us in a world where surrounding us is an all out spiritual war. 
Surrounding you in this world is an invisible war going on over humanity. There is a massive collision occurring between the powers of darkness and the people of God who carry the light of glory in our hearts. By default, there is a resistance in the spiritual dimension. Most believers feel this every day. There is a tension against your forward progress at almost every turn. Wherever you desire to make a major change, resistance is there.
Adversity brings that tension to the surface, where you are forced to make a decision on how you will proceed.
Will you choose to grow and change or will you collapse underneath the oppression that seeks to cut you at the knees? If you realize you are at war, adversity is your time for growth, not “Why me God?” Sadly, too many collapse on the couch and check out at these pressing thresholds.
God’s ultimate desire is to see you take what the enemy used to destroy you as a time to grow like never before. There is something about adversity, trials and resistance that force us to grow and develop greater strength during adversity. You are in a daily spiritual war and God has called us to grow as faithful soldiers. What the enemy uses to kill, steal and destroy can actually be a platform for your greatest training and development.

4. Adversity can wake us up to change.

Unfortunately, people do not often change until the hurt and tension in their life is so great that they have to. Adversity wakes us up to the war that is occurring, calling us to a greater participation in battling for spiritual breakthrough in our lives and those around us. If we listen very carefully, instead of parking in despair, we will hear the loving voice saying, “Something needs to change.” 

5. What we cultivate during adversity needs to become a permanent change.

Many people scramble during adversity and come to God in a panic. But once the hardship begins to wane, we often go back to our old ways. This is a sign we have not grown during adversity. There are key practices we can put into motion during adversity that can become permanent changes we can carry for a lifetime.

6. The aim for our lives is to joyously approach adversity.

This sounds sickening to most, but the more you approach adversity as your time to grow and develop your spiritual muscles, the more you will become exciting about the learning possibilities. This is not a call to self-beating, but for appreciating growing opportunities. Every Christian gives an initial cringe to James’ exhortation to “count it all joy” during times of trials. But when we embrace adversity as a time to workout, we become trained to see what is coming as an opportunity for healthy change and grow, not pure drudgery.

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How to shut up: learning to keep quiet

 
You may be tempted to say out every thought that occurs to you, but sometimes it's best to keep your mouth shut.Great men and great women always keep their mouth shut because it is not time to talk.


The art of silence
Silence can be quite empowering, so by learning the art of silence you will feed your spirit and soul. It's difficult for a lot of people to embrace and experience the value of silence. There is often pressure to fill the atmosphere with words. Being comfortable with silence and your own solitude is useful – it's when we pause that we afford ourselves a space to digest what is being said and to think of a response. We get to listen to not only what is being said, but also what is not being said. Comfort in handling silence lends itself to a confident demeanour.

In relationships
 It's hard to decipher between being right and being happy. There are times when pushing to be right can compromise our happiness in relationships. Choose to be quiet if the relationship is more important than just about winning the argument.

If you'll regret it, don't say it
 When you have nothing to say, don't spoil your silence by saying something you will regret. As long as your body language is not communicating something different, feel free to just keep quiet and observe the situation.

 Be compassionate
When someone is in despair and sharing their pain or challenges with you, shut up and listen.If you have to open your mouth,encourage them with words of strength.It is not time for you to steal the limelight just because you have been through the same experience.It doesn't have to be about you all the time, so hold your tongue and acknowledge the other person and their need to vent. By honouring their expression of pain or guilt, they will want to confide in you again in the future.

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OUR COUNTRY FIRST

 Image result for Prof. Chris Nwaokobia Jnr OUR COUNTRY FIRST

"An individual has not started living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity." - Martin Luther King Jr.

To move a nation forward there must be a conscious resolve by her citizens to subsume 'I' with 'WE'; to diminish 'ME' with 'US'; and to make the core of governmental trust better life for the people. Chiefly there must be rectitude in governance, and leadership must slay sleaze.

When we eschew corruption and malfeasance. When we serve our union indiscriminate of creed or clan. When we water the tree of patriotism. And when we honour Statesmen above Tribesmen, our voyage to the nation of our dreams shall become real.

In this era of CHANGE I believe that for COUNTRY the Senate of Federal Republic of Nigeria should look beyond the witch-hunt, ghost-hunt or man-hunt of the Senate President Bukola Saraki and ask him to resign, the moral standing of the Senate should count more than the ambition of one man. First it was the forging of House Rules, then corruption charges against his wife, and now corruption charges before the Code of Conduct Tribunal. We must raise the moral bar above the conspiracy theorem and ask him to step down.

Compatriots, we must begin an overhaul of our collective morality. We must rise beyond the 'pawn in a chess-board' cadre and refuse to be drawn into defending or excusing politrickcal and political conflict, Nigeria must come first, for me therefore if Senator Bukola Saraki feels witch-hunted he should step down and square up with those witch-hunting him lest governance suffers.

We must congregate at the place where loyalty to nation dwarfs our partisan prejudices.

God Bless Nigeria.

Prof. Chris Nwaokobia Jnr.
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Face Your Fears AND KILL IT

 
It's easy to ignore our fears and hope that they'll just go away. Unfortunately, they rarely do. If you don’t face your fears, they’ll end up controlling you. How do you face them? The most common way to face your fears is through exposure, where you gradually face the thing or situation you’re afraid of. With the right method of thinking, you'll wonder why you weren't doing it sooner!

Realize that you’re not alone.
  There are thousands -- maybe even millions -- of people who are probably afraid of very similar things. For example, more than 50 percent of Americans are afraid of creepy crawlies (snakes, spiders, bugs)! Shaming yourself or feeling embarrassed by your fear won’t help you overcome it, but acknowledging that fear is a normal human emotion can help you find the strength to face yours.

 Make a list of your fears.
  In order to fight your fears, you’ve got to know what scares you. Sit down and draw up a list of things you’re afraid of. What are they? Where do they come from? What are their origins? When do they seem to crop up? When do they seem not so bad? How do they make you feel? Getting away from the fear and away from yourself -- looking at yourself on paper -- will help you be a bit more logical, a bit more objective about your fear.

 Face your thinking.
Now that you've got your brain wrapped around the fear -- you know where it comes from, you have it broken down into steps -- it's time to wrap your brain around, well, your brain. Remember that your fear is just a way of thinking -- one that you can control. Changing your “internal dialogue,” or how you think about a situation, can change how you respond to your fears.

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