Saturday 12 March 2016

10 Characteristics of Good Problem Solvers

Good problem solvers are good thinkers. They have less drama and problems to begin with and don't get overly emotional when faced with a problem. They usually see problems as challenges and life experiences and try to stand above them, objectively.
Good problem solvers use a combination of intuition and logic to come up with their solutions. Intuition has more to do with the emotional and instinctive side of us and logic is more related to our cognition and thinking. Good problem solvers use both of these forces to get as much information as they can to come up with the best possible solution. In addition, they are reasonably open minded but logically skeptical.
Some of the general characteristics of good problem solvers are:
1. They don't need to be right all the time: They focus on finding the right solution rather than wanting to prove they are right at all costs.
2. They go beyond their own conditioning: They go beyond a fixated mind set and open up to new ways of thinking and can explore options.
3. They look for opportunity within the problem: They see problems as challenges and try to learn from them.
4. They know the difference between complex and simple thinking: They know when to do a systematic and complex thinking and when to go through short cuts and find an easy solution.
5. They have clear definition of what the problem is: They can specifically identity the problem.
6. They use the power of words to connect with people: They are socially well developed and find ways to connect with people and try to find happy-middle solutions.
7. They don't create problems for others: They understand that to have their problem solved they can't create problems for others. Good problems solvers who create fair solutions make a conscious effort not to harm others for a self-interest intention. They know such acts will have long term consequences even if the problem is temporarily solved.
8. They do prevention more than intervention: Good problem solvers have a number of skills to prevent problems from happening in the first place. They usually face less drama, conflict, and stressful situations since they have clear boundaries, don't let their rights violated and do not violate other people's rights. They are more of a positive thinker so naturally they are surrounded with more positivity and have more energy to be productive.
9. They explore their options: They see more than one solution to a problem and find new and productive ways to deal with new problems as they arise. They also have a backup plan if the first solution does not work and can ask for support and advise when needed.
10. They have reasonable expectations: Good problem solvers have reasonable expectations as to what the solution would be. They understand that there are many elements effecting a situation and that idealistic ways of thinking and going about solving a problem will be counterproductive.
At the end, good problem solvers do not have too many irrational fears when dealing with problems. They can visualize the worst case scenario, work their way out of it and let go of the fear attached to it. Fear can make your logic and intuition shady and your decisions unproductive.

 Written by Michelle Roya Rad
Michelle Roya Rad has an APA accredited doctorate degree in clinical psychology, a master degree in applied psychology, and a bachelor degree in biology with a minor in chemistry. In addition, she is an author, poet, teacher, researcher and an artist.

Seeing Others Through Eyes of Love

Friends,the Bible and the Quran is a book of mysteries and when we know this,our lives begin to take some positive
changes.
Do you know that so many people have picked up the bible,read it to their own fleshly satisfaction and twist it just because of what they like and we also,we do the same thin.
Friends,seeds of greatness lies buried within unpromising people that abruptly spring to life when they are recognized,watered and nurtured.
In truth beloved,we all passed over till Jesus saw something value in us.but rather than paying a bargain
price,Jesus paid it all for you and me.
Beloved,you are special in his eyes.listen"while we were yet sinners,Christ died for us.
A different world will appear before our eyes if we could see every man irrespective of their
age,sex,disabilities,weakness and sexual orientation as a precious treasure that God could not live without,that Christ died to redeem.
Look at Matthew.when Jesus found him,he was a despised tax collector,a pen pusher working with the Romans and you see,nobody wanted to move with him because of who he is but Jesus said"follow me" and Matthew di.
 The transformative power of love has the potential to change everything. As we place ourselves before God, God begins to give us new hearts. And God begins to give us new eyes. Our hearts become tender and vulnerable, like God’s own heart of love. And our eyes begin to see others, no longer through the lenses of fear, competition or judgement, but through God’s eyes of love.
Friends,i want you to know that you are just too special for God.irrespective of who you are,you are made in his image.
Look at your other brothers and sisters within our socities and world,irrespective of tribe,tradition and race with the eyes of love and you will see a great change in your life.

I remain Yours
Dipo Olatade

Choice and Purpose

Although the question contained below came from a reader, the answer is to myself. As to why, I'll let you figure that out.
The following question presented was slightly rephrased for readability:
"I read in one of your articles that God didn't just throw us on this plane, but that we chose to be here. Whether we chose to come here by free will, or we asked God to put us here on the physical plane, I do knot know. But why are animals here? Did they have the same free will to be placed here too? And why can't other entities have the free will to be sent here too?"
Around and around I go on this topic, but this question is all about separation. First, "us and God" are the same. So we ourselves sent us here and we ourselves will ascend at the perfect moment. Plants and animals are not mere decoration for the human experience. They too chose to come here and experience themselves on this plane. You might ask, "How can something that doesn't speak a known language possibly express a desire to come to the physical plane!?" Well, the language spoken at the level where decisions to incarnate into this plane (and all other planes) are not any we know or can understand now (so get the picture out of your head of a cat on a higher plane meowing to God for permission to come here!) Even if I yanked you out of your physical body and took you to that vibrational energy state, you could not (or barely) comprehend it, nor could you explain it to another human being who had not experienced it repeatedly for themselves. Ịt is wordless and without form (note my word here-- without FORM-- that includes human or animal form, etc.) It is beyond known human expression. So until you go to this plane and experience this CONSCIOUSLY for yourself you will never understand what I'm saying. You will continue seeing animals and trees as "things" that are separate and lower than you and God, both without choice or higher reason, and you will continue seeing that you are "built in the likeness of God-- but not God" and your life will keep going on in separation and duality.
 Energy can chose to come here as a dog. Energy, such as a sub earth entity (gnome for example) can and does chose to exist in that sub plane, yet may someday chose to come to this plane in human form. Now, please note that these decisions are not made in the lower bodies. Yes, you have "choices" in the lower bodies but you also have Divine Choice. Your Divine Choice selects where you will be born, what era, to what parents and siblings, the mates you will come across, and the selected lessons you would like to learn. When you are born, you have no clue about this (nor does the dog, rock or tree), but your higher self does. You list a bevy of beings that seemingly have no choice, but they ALL have choice! Why? Because we are all part of God, and every single thing that you can and can't see is part of that sea of energy. And all of this energy, though it doesn't seem like this to you, has purpose.
We think of God as only the Almighty and All Knowing but God is also the rock, the leaf and the bird. We need to get over our image of God as a separate entity with a flowing white robe and beard. God is all things and manifests itself in ways we cannot fathom. God did make man in the likeness of itself, but it also did this with everything else! We just don't "get" it! Until you get this principle, it will boggle your mind that It made all these other planets in our solar system that don't host human life! I mean, what a waste, right!? Why all those silly rocks and moons floating around out there in space? Why too do they exist? If we humans don't think and know about them, then why possibly could they exist? Religions of old used to believe that Earth was the center of the universe because they thought it HAD to be! What a ridiculous notion to think God would place we humans, in the likeness of God, somewhere in a galaxy among trillions! To even question this thinking meant certain death or banishment (as was the case with Galileo, whose work--proving the Copernicus theory that the earth was not the center of our solar system--was condemned by the Roman Catholic Church.) Well, we now know that we are not the center of our solar system, our galaxy or our universe, which is why Pope John Paul II called for its reversal in 1979, and the Vatican's error was acknowledged in October of 1992 by a papal commission...
Broaden your consciousness. There is more to God's experience than we humans running around on Earth. There is more to God's experience than the physical plane. There is more to God's experience than the sub planes and higher planes. God is infinite and all encompassing. It can manifest itself as a burning bush that talks to a feeble minded woman, a man who can part seas, or a speck of space dust that you'll never see.
Think of all mass as energy, and all energy as God. Slice it or dice it how you want, but that's how it is.

Culled from the internet

Arab League declares Hezbollah a terrorist organization

The Arab League have declared Lebanon-based Shiite group Hezbollah a terrorist organization, a day after the Cairo-based body elected Ahmed Aboul Gheit, a former aide to ousted Egyptian president Hosni Mubarak, as its new leader.
Nearly all members of the pan-Arab body supported the decision, expect for Lebanon and Iraq, which expressed “reservations,” the 22-member bloc said in a statement read out at a news conference by Bahraini diplomat Wahid Mubarak Sayar.
“The resolution of the League’s council [of foreign ministers] includes the designation of Hezbollah as a terrorist group,” the statement said.
Earlier in the day, the Saudi delegation briefly withdrew from discussions to protest against Iraqi Foreign Minister Ibrahim al-Jaafari’s refusal to label Hezbollah as terrorist.

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12 Absurd Things That Happen Only In Ghana

Incase you are coming to Ghana,you may be pissed off with what you see,so as you enter Ghana,dont be irritated with what you see because i am now telling you.As Ghanaians we can relate to these things.

1. Paying bribe for people to do their work:

In Ghana you regularly have to pay bribe for people to do their work, for eg. getting a passport, driver’s license, is a nightmare, you’d have to pay more than the official charges to get it done, pay to expedite the process and also pay more bribes to renew it when it expires … you just can’t win. Bribery goes as far as the judiciary system where some court judges took bribes in the form of goats(smh) and petty cash to free guilty criminals.

2. Power cuts: 

Power cuts are nothing new in Africa, but in Ghana power cuts can go for as long as 48 hours … yes!

3. Horrid Politics:In Ghana our politics stinks, if you doubt, switch on your radio in the morning and have a taste of our “honourable” leaders going at each other … so distasteful

4. Leaders constantly disrespecting the people:You may want to look here and see some of the absurd things Ghanaian leaders tell the people who voted them into power.

5. Lack of reliability:If a Ghanaian freelancer asks you to come back in three days for a work-done, just know that he actually means three weeks. Tailors and seamstresses are masters of this game.

6. Elders are always right: In Ghana, being young means you are stupid, old means wise … period!

7. Foreigners are respected than locals:You won’t believe there are places in Ghana, locals can’t go, these places are reserved strictly for foreigners, yes in our own land …

 8. Politics is the only legal means to overnight success:Every Ghanaian politician is rich whilst the rest of the country suffer.

 9.Grave crimes go unpunished:Every the nation or commit crime Tom,Dick and Harry can swindle and get away with it whilst petty crimes are awarded ridiculous prison terms.

 10. People spend the whole week in church and expect money to magically appear:How they expect that to work baffles me

11. Sex is a forbidden topic:… but our music and movies are full of it

12.  Speaking in another man’s accent makes you exceptional:Commonly called LAFA (locally acquired foreign accent) is a common thing on our radio stations even people who haven’t traveled to the UK or US can speak like people who were born and raised there. Our musicians do the same too ….

 Written by Baa Kwasi Boakye