Monday 5 September 2016

Pope Anoints Mother Teresa as saint

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Elevating the "saint of the gutters" to one of the Catholic Church's highest honours, Pope Francis praised Mother Teresa for her radical dedication to society's outcasts and her courage in shaming world leaders for the "crimes of poverty they themselves created." An estimated 120,000 people filled St. Peter's Square for the canonization ceremony, less than half the number who turned out for her 2003 beatification. It was nevertheless the highlight of Francis' Holy Year of Mercy and quite possibly one of the defining moments of his mercy-focused papacy.
Francis has been dedicated to ministering to society's most marginal, from prostitutes to prisoners, refugees to the homeless. In that way, while the canonization of "St. Teresa of Kolkata" was a celebration of her life and work, it was also something of an affirmation of Francis' own papal priorities, which have earned him praise and criticism alike.
"Let us carry her smile in our hearts and give it to those whom we meet along our journey, especially those who suffer," Francis said in his homily.
Born Agnes Gonxhe Bojaxhiu on Aug. 26, 1910, Teresa came to India in 1929 as a sister of the Loreto order. In 1946, she received what she described as a "call within a call" to found a new order dedicated to caring for the most unloved and unwanted, the "poorest of the poor" in the slums of her adopted city, Kolkata.
The Missionaries of Charity order went on to become one of the most well-known in the world, with more than 4,000 sisters in their trademark blue-trimmed white saris doing as Teresa instructed: "small things with great love."

Portugese farmers to receive support, Agriculture Minister says

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    Portugal should continue to support milk producers in dealing with the current market crisis, said the country’s Agriculture Minister Luís Capoulas Santos on Monday.
The minister, who was visiting the Agroleite agricultural and milk product fair in Póvoa de Varzim, near Porto, gave assurances the government would continue to provide support.
About 50 milk producers from the north of Portugal demonstrated at the fair on Thursday morning calling for “more justice in the prices paid to producers.”
The farmers said the “sector is suffocating” and the government must take measures to mitigate the difficulties that affect so many producers.
The protestors said that “if milk imports were reduced and domestic production used instead, Portuguese producers could sell another 20 million litres a year”.
In response the minister said "We are in a market economy and we can’t set prices, so the support we provide is to minimise this low market cycle. Otherwise the situation would become completely desperate”, Capoulas Santos said.
The Agriculture Minister said that despite recent press criticism of excessive support for the sector the government planned to keep “a support package of tens of millions of euros” in place.

12 rules for being a good husband and keeping your wife happy


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There are lots of amusing articles out there about men, women and the gulfs between them. Both genders cast their eyes upwards and perhaps grin ruefully when they contemplate the mysteries and foolishness of the opposite sex. Sure, we're different and it does no harm to make light of this. But what about writing something more practical? Dating has been done to death, so how about that less fashionable thing: marriage. I can speak with some authority on this, having been happily married for several decades.
So, in no particular order, here are some rules for husbands, or how to keep your wife by keeping her happy year after year. I can't say I always use them or they always work, but I can say I do try and we're still very happily married.

1. Treat her like a lady

It may seem old fashioned, but unless she's a determined feminist, she'll like it when you do things like opening doors for her, helping her on with her coat, and pretty much always putting her first.
Women like to feel special. They want to know you respect them and would never hurt them. Being a gentleman is a good way to show this.

2. Surprise her

Randomly buy flowers, take her to a swanky restaurant, buy her a random present or otherwise treat her to something nice. It needn't be expensive, though an occasional splash will go a long way.
Surprise changes minds. It delights. It shows that the flame of romance is still burning. Surprise is, by definition, unexpected, so keep mixing it up and being creative.

3. Push the boat out

Now and again, do something expensive together. Push the boat out. Go to an expensive restaurant. Go on holiday to some exotic location. Buy her an expensive anniversary present.
Yes, you always need to manage the money, so save up for occasional such splurges. These can be done as surprises but often are fun to plan together. Initiate the process, then give her options and let her choose.

4. Make her laugh

Laughter comes from incongruous surprise. Tell jokes. Be funny. Clown around. When she thinks of you, she should smile inside. Playing the fool also says you trust her not to take advantage of your idiocy.
Fun may exists on the edge of acceptability, so be careful not to tread into dangerous waters (for example with gender jokes). It may mean taking risks so learn where her boundaries are and respect them.

5. Defend her

Women like to feel safe, and as the weaker sex easily feel more vulnerable than men. If somebody attacks her, verbally or otherwise, stand up for her. If necessary, put yourself at risk. She'll love you for your courage. If you seem willing to put yourself in harm's way for her, you must surely love her above all else.
This does not mean attacking every man who looks at her or jumping in with both feet when you hear part of a comment. Find out what's going on before sticking your neck out. Conversational interruptions can embarrass her. Aggression, even to others, can scare her. Listening then subtly defusing the situation can sometimes be best. Always remember your goal is her comfort, not to massage your own manliness.

6. Help out

If things need doing around the house, do them. If dishes need washing, wash them. If there are bits on the floor, pick them up. If a tap is dripping, fix it. In particular, watch for when she looks tired and offer to help out. Suggest that you cook, clean or just make a cup of coffee. Be tidy. Put things away rather than down.
Certainly, you may each take on different roles where you each attend to different chores, and do respect her preferences (some women, for example, like cooking and consider the kitchen their domain). Do not take helping to extreme. It is important to share the work and she may resent you if you do too much (or may just take you for granted). You goal is that she appreciates you, not wonders what you are up to.

7. Touch her

Maintain regular, affectionate physical contact. Touch her lightly on the shoulder as you go past. Come up behind her and hug her around the waist. Especial when she has been away, even for the day, welcome her back with a smile and a big hug.
Be careful in this to keep contact appropriate. If she sometimes seems not to want to be touched, back off. Sometimes women don't want physical contact or not in certain ways. Respect this. Your touch should make her feel good, not pawed.

8. Tell her you love her

Declare your love for her. Tell her this on cards and gifts or just in words, at random time of the day. Always remember Valentine's Day, your wedding anniversary and any other special dates.

9. Say she looks good Stop mid-tracks now and again, look at her and say something like 'Gosh, you look great'. Smile appreciatively when you look at her. Notice when she's dressed up and say that she looks great. Also say she looks good when she isn't spruced up. If she denies this, say something like 'You can't help always looking good.'
When she tries on a dress and asks your opinion, if you don't like it don't say she looks awful -- say you prefer another dress today or the shade isn't quite right. Beware of painting yourself into a corner by saying things like 'You look nice now' that imply she doesn't at other times.

10. Show your appreciation

Find other ways to show you appreciate her. An easy way is to smile and thank her when she does things for you. Say what a great wife she is. Tell her the best decision of your life was to marry her. Tell others she's brilliant (it will likely get back to her). Never criticize her to other people.
When she shows she appreciates you, show that you like this by saying things like 'That's very kind of you'. When you are both showing appreciation for the other on a regular basis, it a make a lot of difference all round.

11. Take her seriously

The most common indicator of impending divorce is contempt. The opposite is respect. Show her respect by listening to her concerns and treating these as being important, even if they they don't seem that big a deal to you. Don't just nod and hope she'll finish soon. Read between the lines and look for underlying concerns. Sometimes listening and appreciating is all she needs. At other times she wants help. When this is obvious, just do it. If you are not sure, ask.
This can be difficult when she is critical of you. Don't just react angrily or defensively. Stay open to the possibility that things you do aren't as effective as they could be. In many ways she is your customer. Think carefully and objectively about what is going on. Discuss alternatives and, if needed, change. She'll know this is a big deal for you (if not, explain how you feel) and will be very appreciative.

12. Be the calm one

Be the calm one, but not the cold one. When she gets upset, neither go up in the air with her, nor be clinical. Empathize with her emotion. Listen to her explanation, no matter how illogical it is. Then decide what to do. Often, all she needs is comfort.
Sometimes it helps to tell her everything will turn out ok. At other times some helpful suggestions work (though at other times they do not). Another approach is to take charge and sort out the problem yourself, though you may want to ask if she wants this. Finally cool logic can work, though it is often best left until she feels a bit calmer. 

Written by Stephany Cage
 www.changingminds.org


MEN: How to Improve Your Relationship With Your Wife

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Marriage is the ultimate bond between two partners. You made a vow to love one another for better or for worse, but sometimes things become strained. Perhaps you had a bad fight, you feel yourselves drifting apart, or you may have simply reached a point where you realize you need to improve the relationship. Relationships require work and commitment to keep your love for one another strong, and marriage is no exception. With a little effort, some understanding, and a bit of patience, you and your spouse can improve your marriage and remember why you pledged your love to one another.

Working on Communication:Look,you need to communicate well with your wife and listen to her.you are the man,and your body structure is different from your wife.Often times couples that have been together for a long time take the things that are said for granted. For example, your spouse might tell you that something you're doing has been bothering him/her, but you might assume that it's not a big deal because you've been together for so long. However, little things add up, and when your partner feels invalidated or unheard, that can lead to bigger trust and intimacy issues down the line.

  • Start with spending quality time with your wife. Quality time is time that you reserve unconditionally and completely for your spouse. No matter what happens, you reserve this time for your wife. Phone rings? Hang up and shut it off in front of your wife. Mean it. And then ... listen. Sit together, watch each other, enjoy each others presence and enjoy being together. At least thrice a week for 30 - 60 minutes. And while you're at it, remember why you married your wife.
  •  If your spouse tells you there is a problem, you need to take that statement seriously. Work on solving the problem, either alone or together, but make sure you take your partner's concerns seriously.
  •  Address your partner's needs. If your spouse is telling you what he or she wants from the relationship, you need to put in the effort to make it happen or work together to find a compromise.
Be open and honest with each other. Honesty is tremendously important in a relationship, especially if you're married. You want to feel that you can trust your spouse, and you want your partner to feel the same way. But honesty and openness extends beyond just telling the truth; it also means not withholding information, and not holding back when there's something you want to address.
  • Never lie to your partner. Even a small lie, like saying something doesn't bother you when it secretly does, can eventually boil over into resentment and arguments.
  • Open up and let yourself be vulnerable with your partner. Tell your spouse your secret hopes and dreams, your deepest fears, and other things that you keep hidden.
  • Let your partner open up and be vulnerable with you. This can help build trust and foster a stronger sense of intimacy and affection.
 Work on compromising. Compromising can be difficult, especially when emotions are running high after an argument. However, needing to be right for 30 seconds isn't worth the strain that argument could put on your relationship down the line. It's normal to disagree or even argue from time to time, but you need to be willing to let go of your side in the name of compromising and collaborating.
  • Don't think of arguments as something that need to be "won." This is dangerous thinking, as it pits you and your spouse against each other.
  • Let go of things that aren't worth fighting over. Even if you weren't in the wrong, it's not worth the stress and frustration of an argument.
  • Be willing to cede an argument. Just because you think you're right, it doesn't mean arguing your point any further will get you anywhere, so work on dropping it before it escalates.
 Use "I" statements. When you and your spouse have a disagreement, it's important to avoid using accusations or insults. One way many spouses inadvertently hurt their partners is by using "you" statements instead of "I" statements. Using "I" statements can help convey the way you're feeling and promote a productive, positive conversation, instead of hurting your partner's feelings.
  • A "you" statement conveys blame to your partner. For example, "You're always late, and you make me look bad as a result!"
  • An "I" statement reframes the conversation in a way that focuses on the feeling, not on pinning blame or guilt. For example, "When you don't keep track of the time and we have somewhere to be, it makes me feel like you're not taking my feelings into consideration."
  • An "I" statement has three components: a concise and non-accusatory description of the specific behavior you're having problems with, your feelings on that behavior, and the tangible, concrete effect your partner's specific behavior has on you.
Never yell at your wife. Many people begin yelling without even realizing it. When you have an argument, your emotions may be running high, and you might feel very passionately about the thing you're debating. However, yelling at your spouse will only have one of two results: either your partner will yell back, and you'll be screaming at one another, or your partner will become fearful of you. Either way, it's a damaging situation that can put a huge strain on your relationship.
  • It may feel relieving in the moment to yell and let out your frustrations, but your emotions will be running high.
  • You're more likely to say things that you don't mean when you yell, and you won't be able to take back those hurtful words later when you're calmed down.
  • Avoid talking about important things when you (and/or your partner) are upset. Take a walk, or simply excuse yourself from the room for 5 or 10 minutes, then restart the conversation when you're both calm.

 Written by Jessica Casey

 Jessica B. Casey is a National Certified Counselor in Texas. She received her M.A. in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from Sam Houston State University in 2014.

Space duo: Russia partners China to create joint lunar station

Moscow may team up with Beijing to create a scientific station on the Moon. The challenge for Russia is to build its own space station by 2024 to achieve its lunar exploration goals.

According to Russian Deputy Prime Minister Dmitry Rogozin, who supervises defense-related policies, the question on "bringing China in as the main partner in creating a lunar scientific station," is currently being discussed with Roscosmos.
"We have told China of our plans about the possibility of creating a Russian national orbital station," Rogozin told reporters after a meeting with Chinese Vice Premier Wang Yang in China on Monday.

Rogozin said that both parties share "deep mutual understanding and mutual interests" in space-related projects.
China's Vice Foreign Minister Cheng Guoping said previously that Beijing plans to boost its cooperation with Russia in a number of areas, including space.

Gary Lamphier: Canada may soon taste Alberta's economic pain

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You might assume the rest of Canada has observed Alberta’s unfolding economic implosion with a bit of concern, if not outright alarm.
After all, as hard as it may be to recall now, this province was the country’s undisputed economic engine for over a decade.
Between 2000 and 2014, Alberta’s energy-fired economy generated more than $200 billion of net wealth for the nation’s coffers, while employing tens of thousands of Canadians who couldn’t find decent jobs in places like Moncton, Windsor or Kelowna.
As John Rose, the City of Edmonton’s chief economist once put it to me, Alberta’s oil-driven economic boom helped prevent a “social disaster” in many Canadian towns and cities where jobless rates remain perpetually high.
Before oil prices cratered in late 2014, crude ranked as Canada’s top export, and the energy sector attracted a third of the nation’s capital investment. When crude prices tanked, it erased $60 billion of annual income from Canada’s economy.
That works out to $1,800 for every Canadian, the Bank of Canada says.
Yet, the meltdown in the Alberta economy has triggered little concern in most other parts of Canada, where Prime Minister Justin Trudeau’s sunny post-electoral honeymoon continues apace, and few seem worried by the country’s increasingly fragile economy.
Two years into the worst recession in history, Alberta’s economic meltdown rates little more than a mention in places like Toronto or Vancouver, where I spent 25 years of my adult life. In conversations with family members and friends who live there, it rarely comes up.
A recent interview with federal Finance Minister Bill Morneau did little to reassure me that the Liberal government really understands the magnitude of the economic earthquake that has occurred in Alberta. He offered no clear answers in response to our pointed questions about the pressing need for new oil pipelines.
Perhaps that shouldn’t be a surprise. Morneau, who represents the upscale riding of Toronto Centre, exudes the same aura as his boss — someone who never had to get his hands dirty like the rest of us to pay the bills.
Most of my old Ontario pals have seldom set foot in Alberta, either. Ditto for my ex-colleagues on the west coast. Several have lived in Asia, but have never taken the hour-long flight to Calgary or Edmonton. That’s life in this highly regionalized, parochial country.
But it begs an obvious question. Now that the source of Alberta’s wealth has evaporated, and the province’s NDP government finds itself grappling with a projected 2016-17 budget deficit of nearly $11 billion, who is going to fill the gaping hole in the national economy?
High-tech? Auto manufacturing? Financial services? Aerospace? I seriously doubt it. None of them boast the scale, the global stature or the inherent cost advantages over their global competitors to replace Alberta’s all-important energy sector.
While real estate has recently become the biggest contributor to Canada’s GDP — thanks to overheated housing markets in Toronto and Vancouver — that sector also looks wobbly. Sales volumes in Vancouver are dropping fast in the wake of a new 15-per-cent tax on foreign buyers, and many fear a long-overdue correction is here.
Meanwhile, Trudeau’s economic agenda — such as it is — seems vague at best.
His obvious desire to downplay the importance of resources, and his avid embrace of an emissions-light, post-industrial economy — presumably built around high-tech hotbeds like Kitchener-Waterloo — doesn’t align with Canada’s current economy reality.
Trudeau’s oft-quoted Davos speech touting Canada’s “resourcefulness,” his efforts to cultivate ties with the likes of Bill Gates and BlackRock chairman Larry Fink, and his calculated photo ops at tech giants like Google and Microsoft are clearly designed to appeal to millennial urban hipsters.
That’s fine. That’s his base. But that doesn’t change the basic math. Sure, Canada’s services sector is growing. But it won’t replace the value of a healthy energy sector anytime soon.
Like it or not, Canada’s banks, insurance companies, design firms and high-tech companies are minor leaguers on the global stage. Services account for just over 15 per cent of Canada’s exports, or less than the $60 billion that was erased from Canada’s export revenues when oil prices headed south.
At the same time, Canada’s factory sector has also stumbled. Despite the faltering loonie, it has failed to benefit. Investment in manufacturing remains subdued, and Canada’s non-energy exports have actually declined in recent months.
Without a healthy Alberta economy, and a healthy energy sector, it’s hard to see how the struggling Canadian economy can get back on its feet anytime soon.
So far, that hasn’t mattered in the nation’s power centres, where Alberta’s economic pain is little more than a rumour. But with summer waning and the cool days of fall just around the corner, Canadians’ complacency may soon give way to something else.

BREAKING NEWS:Indian nationals contract Zika in Singapore

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The External Affairs Ministry of India has confirmed that a dozen of the country’s citizens located in Singapore have contracted the Zika virus.

“According to our mission in Singapore, 13 Indian nationals have tested positive for Zika in Singapore,” Vikas Swarup, spokesman for the Ministry of External Affairs, reportedly confirmed.
Singapore government has reported 115 locally transmitted Zika cases including that of a pregnant woman. The country reported its first Zika case in May from a man who had visited Sao Paulo in Brazil.
Zika cases were first detected in the residential area of Aljunied Crescent, where foreign construction workers live, then spread to nearby areas, the Singaporean Ministry of Health informed.
"Over time, we expect Zika cases to emerge from more areas," Singaporean Minister for Health Gan Kim Yong further added.
Low immunity is reportedly the reason for the high incidence of Zika in the island country.

Boko Haram members plan to join Nigerian army – DSS

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The Department of State Services said in Abuja that some members of the dreaded Boko Haram were already making plans to join the army.
It, however, said that two members of the sect, who it described as specialists in the making of Improvised Explosive Devise, had been nabbed before they succeeded in joining the army.
Spokesperson for the DSS, Mr. Tony Opuiyo, who stated this in a statement in Abuja, said that the suspects were arrested in Kano.
He said, “In response to the regrouping of Boko Haram elements in Kano State, the Service in concert with the military, carried out coordinated operations in the state which led to the apprehension of two high profile members of the sect.
“They are Ibrahim Abubakar and Idris Audu. Audu is an IED specialist who was being groomed to penetrate security agencies in the country.
“Audu had already perfected plans to seek for recruitment into the next recruitment scheme of the Nigeria Army, before his arrest.”
He attributed the success recorded in the arrest of these two suspects to the secret police’s sustained tactical and counter-terrorism operations.
Opuiyo also said that the service on August 22 arrested one Samuel Asuquo, who was described as a kidnap kingpin, at Nasarawa Bakoko village in Cross River State.