Tuesday 28 June 2016

Speaking with Presence: Delivering Your Message with Authority and Confidence

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 Discover How Leaders Communicate with Authenticity
With their warmth, confidence, and ability to connect, many leaders appear like they were born to the role. But that is actually rare. What seem to be innate gifts are often the result of learning and practicing communication skills.
And, as a leader, your most important job is to communicate effectively.
Whether in a meeting, presentation, water-cooler conversation, or formal speech, your ability to deliver a clear, believable message is the tipping point between forgettable and transformational.
This webcast gives you a concise starting point to improve your communication skills. You’ll get dozens of practical tips for creating and communicating meaningful messages with presence and authority.

What You Will Learn

To be a truly effective leader, your words need to ring true, and your delivery needs to be authentic. Join us as we explore:
  • How to present your ideas clearly and provide appropriate context
  • Tips for grounding yourself and radiating confidence that will put your audience at ease
  • Steps you can take to refine your public speaking delivery 
  • How you should use stories to inform, involve, and inspire 
  • Ways to leverage the energy of any room
This program will help you achieve the kind of genuine presence that leads to lasting trust and quantifiable influence. While attending this program is FREE, reservations are required.
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Seven Principles of Effective Public Speaking

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When we watch celebrities, politicians, or business leaders speak on television or in public, they seem so at ease that we may wonder:  are great speakers made, or are they just born that way? While it is true that some individuals are definitely born with this gift, the overwhelming majority of effective speakers have trained themselves to be so. Either they have received formal media training or they have delivered so many speeches that over time they’ve learned what works for them. So what is the true secret to effective public speaking?
Here are seven principles of public speaking that I’ve developed in my role as a media coach.  Keep them in mind the next time you find yourself presenting before a group.
1. Perception: Stop trying to be a great “public” speaker.People want to listen to someone who is interesting, relaxed, and comfortable.  In the routine conversations we have every day, we have no problem being ourselves.  Yet too often, when we stand up to give a speech, something changes.  We focus on the “public” at the expense of the “speaking.”  To become an effective public speaker, you must do just the opposite: focus on the speaking and let go of the “public.”  Think of it as a conversation between you and the audience. If you can carry on a relaxed conversation with one or two people, you can give a great speech.  Whether your audience consists of two people or two thousand and whether you’re talking about the latest medical breakthrough or what you did today at work, be yourself; talk directly to people and make a connection with them.
2. Perfection: When you make a mistake, no one cares but you. Even the most accomplished public speaker will make a mistake at some point.  Just keep in mind that you’ll notice more than anyone in your audience.  The most important thing a speaker can do after making a mistake is to keep going.  Don’t stop and—unless the mistake was truly earth shattering—never apologize to the audience for a minor slip.  Unless they are reading the speech during your delivery, the audience won’t know if you left out a word, said the wrong name, or skipped a page.  Because “to err is human,” a mistake can actually work for you, because it allows you to connect with your audience.  People don’t want to hear from someone who is “perfect;” they will relate much more easily to someone who is real.
3. Visualization: If you can see it, you can speak it.Winners in all aspects of life have this in common:  they practice visualization to achieve their goals.  Sales people envision themselves closing the deal; executives picture themselves developing new ventures; athletes close their eyes and imagine themselves making that basket, hitting that home run, or breaking that record.  The same is true in public speaking.  The best way to fight anxiety and to become a more comfortable speaker is to practice in the one place where no one else can see you—your mind. If you visualize on a consistent basis, your mind will become used to the prospect of speaking in public, and pretty soon you’ll conquer any feelings of anxiety.
4. Discipline: Practice makes perfectly good.Your goal is not to be a perfect public speaker.  There is no such thing.  Your goal is to be an effective public speaker.  Like anything else in life, it takes practice.  We too often take communication for granted because we speak to people everyday. But when your prosperity is directly linked to how well you perform in front a group, you need to give the task the same attention as if you were a professional athlete. Remember, even world champion athletes practice every day.  Try taking a class where you practise giving speeches.

5. Description: Make it personal.Whatever the topic, audiences respond best when speakers personalize their communication. Take every opportunity to put a face on the facts of your presentation.  People like to hear about other people’s experiences—the triumphs, tragedies, and everyday humorous anecdotes that make up their lives.  Tell stories.  Whenever possible, insert a personal-interest element in your public speaking.  Not only will it make your listeners warm up to you, but it will also do wonders at putting you at ease. After all, on what subject is your expertise greater than on the subject of you?
6. Inspiration: Speak to serve.For a twist that is sure to take much of the fear out of public speaking, take the focus off of yourself and shift it to your audience. After all, the objective is not to benefit the speaker but to benefit the audience, through teaching, motivation, or entertainment. So in all of your preparation and presentation, you should think about your purpose.  How can you help your audience members achieve their goals?
7. Anticipation: Always leave ‘em wanting more.One of the most valuable lessons I have learned in my years in communications is that when it comes to public speaking, less is usually more. I don’t think I’ve ever left a gathering and heard someone say, “I wish that speaker had spoken longer.” On the other hand, I imagine that you probably can’t count the times that you’ve thought, “I’m glad that speech is over. It seemed to go on forever!” So surprise your audience.  Always make your presentation just a bit shorter than anticipated.  If you’ve followed the first six principles outlined here you already have their attention and interest, and it’s better to leave your listeners wishing you had spoken for just a few more minutes than squirming in their seats waiting for your speech finally to end.


Written by Richard Zoeli
Richard Zeoli Richard Zeoli is the founder and president of RZC Impact, an executive communications training firm.  He is the author of The 7 Principles of Public Speaking (Skyhorse Publishing) and he is a Visiting Associate at the Eagleton Institute of Politics at Rutgers University in New Jersey.  For more information, visit www.rzcimpact.com

8 Reasons Why You Don't Have Money

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Before you decide to hate me, understand I know what it’s like to be broke, and worse than being broke I know what it’s like to just barely get by month after month.
Two hundred and fifty million people in the wealthiest country on the planet are barely making it. I am not talking about the people on food stamps or unemployment, I am talking about people making an average of $48,000 to $68,000 annually. Consider that almost 75 percent of all Americans are living paycheck to paycheck.
In 2013, a person making $63,000 (before taxes) spent an average of $49,000 to $51,000 on housing, transportation, food, insurance, entertainment, childcare, health care and other expenditures. Take 20 percent out of that formula for taxes and you have no money left over for savings or investments.
You are having money issues because you have money issues. Here are a few of them:

1. Living with mommy

Most Americans live within 25 miles of their mothers. If you want to make real money, it’s time to disconnect from mommy and all things familiar. It is time to move away and go where there is opportunity. You aren’t saving money by still living at your parent’s house -- you are missing opportunities. My life didn’t change until I moved away from my hometown at the age of 29.

2. Economic illiteracy

Most people are economically illiterate. People are going to college and don’t even understand basic economic terms. Economy is defined as household management or management of resources. Manage means to be in charge and succeed in surviving, especially against heavy odds. To manage your own economy means you have to create money by playing offense in the marketplace.

3. The budget blockhead mindset

Spending all of your time trying to budget money is a way to guarantee you never have money. Your daddy told you, “A penny saved is a penny earned,” wrong, it’s just a penny. Having a budget blockhead mindset means you are playing defense, not offense.

4. Politicians, the Easter Bunny and Santa Claus

This idea that a politician can save the middle class (you) has been tried, tested, promised and failed for the last 50 years. Almost every economic indicator has worsened. If politicians could save the middle class they would have already.

5. Financial apathy

People have become apathetic regarding their finances and quit looking at it. You can’t have money if you don’t pay attention to it. Admit to where you are financially and start paying attention to your money. Acting like there is no problem doesn’t make the problem go away, it makes it worse. My wife and I meet to discuss the topic of money every week regardless of our financial situation.

6. Entitlement issues

The unwillingness to do the jobs no one else wants is why people don’t have money. The entitlement problem is not just for the lower economic level, but hits all the way to the top.  Everyone wants to be the director, CEO, the manager, the writer -- well, guess what? Someone has to do the selling.

7. Poverty comparison

The idea that your financial situation is better off than someone that is starving does not make your financial situation any better. Those just getting by try to make sense and justify their financial situations by finding others that are worse off. That’s financial suicide.

8. Nine-to-five bitching

I work 95 hours a week and most people complain about nine-to-five schedules. If you aren’t working and thinking about how to get ahead before during and after work, you aren’t getting ahead. I have never known anyone that was financially successful that wasn’t all in all the time.
If your money situation sucks you must admit it. The first step to any makeover or recovery is to admit you have a problem and the second step is to quit blaming others, depending on others to fix it and trying to make sense of it. Confront where you are, put your attention on income, not saving, be willing to do whatever job for however long to fix your situation and make it your duty, obligation and responsibility to get your financial life in order.
Money isn’t the most important thing. It won’t make you happy. But neither of those truths makes it OK for you to not have money to take care of your family and create the life you want.

Written by Grant Cardone
 Grant Cardone is an international sales expert, New York Times best-selling author, and radio show host of The Cardone Zone. He has founded three companies:Cardone Enterprises,Cardone Real Estate Holdings, and the Cardon Group.He has shared his sales and business expertise as a motivational speaker and author of five books: Sell to Survive; The Closers Survival Guide; If You're Not First, You're Last; The 10X Rule; and Sell or Be Sold.

5 Habits of the Wealthy That Helped Them Get Rich

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Why do the rich keep getting richer? Most of the time, it’s not because of luck. It’s not because of the family they were born into. It’s not because they won the lottery.
Wealthy people simply do things differently.
It may not seem fair, but the fact is the “income gap” is increasing and most financial experts only see this trend continuing with no end in sight.
In preparation for this column, I sat down with someone who knows far more wealthy people than I will likely ever meet: Jeff Rose. Rose is a certified financial planner,author and blogger at www.GoodFinancialCents.com, as well as a millionaire himself, who dedicates a good portion of his time to helping people become, and stay, wealthy.
I asked Rose why he thought the income gap was growing. He mentioned five primary things that wealthy people simply do differently than the rest of the world. Here are those five, in no particular order.

1. They take risks.

Rose explains that the wealthiest people he works with routinely “throw spaghetti at the wall to see what sticks.” In other words, they try a lot of different things, knowing that a lot of it will fail.
They take those risks because they know that failure is just part of the process in discovering what will truly work to build more wealth. Furthermore, as Rose explains, the rejection of those ideas invigorates the wealthy into finding what will work, a stark contrast to most of the population that simply looks at failure as a road block.

2. They invest in themselves.

According to Rose, “wealthy people don’t look at the money spent on personal growth as an expense, but an investment.”
While many individuals conserve every penny equally, the wealthy understand that strategically investing in themselves will produce a far greater return than any stock, real-estate investment or business venture.
Whether it’s purchasing a book, hiring a coach, joining a paid mastermind group or another source of paid self-improvement, the wealthy see this as an investment. Do you?

3. They associate with those they want to emulate.

When the human body gets too hot, it produces sweat in an attempt to cool down. When it becomes too cold, it shivers to produce heat. In other words, the human body is constantly adapting to keep its temperature at the same comfortable spot. This automatic leveling is a biological process known as homeostasis and is found in numerous aspects of life.
From human biology to the temperature of the earth to a car’s cruise control to the thermostat in your house, homeostasis is a fact of life that governs nearly every aspect of your existence. And, as the wealthy have discovered, homeostasis can also be a powerful way to build wealth.
As Rose stated bluntly to me, “If you want to be rich, hang around rich people.”

Or as financial TV personality Dave Ramsey often says, “if there are four broke people in a room, you’ll be the fifth.”
Wealthy people have discovered that they can grow their wealth simply by associating with those who are even more wealthy. Humans pick up the habits and strategies of those in their immediate surroundings, and the wealthy have learned to use this homeostasis to their advantage.

4. They have a dedicated morning ritual.

While most of the world is hitting the snooze button 14 times in a row each morning, the wealthy have already begun increasing their net worth.
“Most of the multi-millionaires I know have a dedicated routine, a ritual, that they do each and every morning,” Rose says.
This morning ritual could include exercise, affirmations, goal reviews, breakfast or whatever else helps them start their days with a bang. They start strong, accomplishing more before noon than more people accomplish in a week.
For those struggling to get started each morning on the right foot, Rose recommends two books:
In my own life, I've found this truth incredibly powerful. Since instituing a morning routine, I've quadrupled my income,written and published a bestselling real estate investing book, lost 10 pounds, bought my dream house and deepened my relationship with my wife. Not bad for just a few minutes each morning of dedicated routine.

5. They review their goals consistently.

Finally, according to Rose, the rich have clearly defined goals and continually review them to track their progress, make changes and develop strategies for meeting those goals. This process of immediate feedback allows the wealthy to make quick changes to their plans to keep the course in a rapidly-changing world.
While most of the human population gives little to no thought on their futures, the wealthy are reminded daily of where they are headed. Like a family taking a cross-country trip in their minivan, the rich have their road map spread out on the dashboard so they can navigate the fastest, easiest route to their destinations.
Rose admits that the wealth gap is far more complicated than a simple “five-point blog post.” However, he continually witnesses these five traits guiding the lives of those who are getting richer and has used them in his own life to create multiple businesses and build some serious wealth himself.
These five actions create a positive-feedback loop that will continue to make the rich richer, and there's no sign of that ceasing. The good news is, however, these five actions are all things that the average American can put into practice today. Will you?

Written by Brandon Turner
 Brandon Turner is a real estate entrepreneur and the VP of Growth at BiggerPockets.com, one of the web’s largest real estate investing communities. He is also the author of The Book on Rental Property InvestingThe Book on Investing in Real Estate with No (and Low) Money Down and several other books. Buying his first home at the age of 21, Turner quickly grew his real estate portfolio to over 40 units using a variety of creative finance methods. He and his wife Heather live in Grays Harbor, Wash.He can be reached through www.twitter.com/brandonatbp

Dangote Lekki Refinery, Petrochemical Projects Will Boost Nigeria’s Economy-Ambode

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Lagos State Governor, Mr. Akinwunmi Ambode has said that the refinery, petrochemical, gas and fertilizer projects being undertaken by Africa’s richest man and business mogul, Aliko Dangote at the Lekki Free Zone (LFZ) in Lagos would significantly boost the economy of Lagos and Nigeria in general.

 Governor Ambode who spoke to newsmen shortly after an extensive inspection tour of the projects by the Nigeria’s Vice President, Prof. Yemi Osinbajo and some members of the Federal Executive Council, said the projects would have great multiplier effects on the nation’s economy.
 He said, “Firstly, there is a refinery project that is ongoing, second there is a petrochemical project that is also ongoing. There is pipeline transfer project that brings gas from Bonny down to Olokonla and down to Lekki and then the fourth one is the fertilizer project all in one location.”
 He said the projects would also be critical to the economic growth of the Lagos East and West Senatorial Districts which according to him, will be open to massive investment opportunities on completion.
Governor Ambode said the decision of the Vice President to lead the inspection visit to the projects was a signpost to the benefits inherent not just for the State but to the nation.
He assured that his administration would provide the necessary support to ensure that the projects are completed within schedule.

Al-Shabaab explosions cut of communications in Kenya

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A series of explosions at Damasa could be heard right at Kenyan Defense Force military camp in Mandera and the rest of the country has been cut off .
According to police in the county, intelligence reports said that about 100 al-Shabaab militia were seen on the Somalia side of Damasa, reportedly being transported in 13 lorries.
They were moving using two land cruisers and a number of motorcycles from El-Adde town towards Borache. They were also seen in the area as the explosions were being detonated.
The explosions, believed to have meant for either a Kenya Defense Forces camp in the area of the Somalia National Army, however took out a communication mast two kilometers away from the camps.
 The downing of the Safaricom communication mast cut off communication beteen the Kenyan camp and officers who were investigating the explosions.
Aside from the mast, the only source of water in the region was also destroyed.
A security meeting that was scheduled to take place today Tuesday, June 28, 2016, was postponed.

Orlando police arrests Karate instructor for sexually assaulting her student, 11

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Authorities have arrested a karate instructor they say solicited an 11-year-old boy for sex.Orlando police tell news outlets that authorities arrested 20-year-old Stephannie Figueroa on charges including attempted lewd or lascivious conduct, solicitation of a minor via computer and contributing to the delinquency of a minor. She had instructed the boy at the NextGen Martial Arts studio in Orlandoaccording to reports.
Police say the boy's mother contacted officials after finding inappropriate text messages from Figueroa on her son's phone. Police say the messages included nude photos and video sent by Figueroa over the messaging app Kik, the station reports.
Police believe there may be more victims and they're asking anyone with information to call 1-800-423-TIPS.
Figueroa was released on bail from Orange County Jail. It's unclear if she has an attorney.

My Black Trouser..-Adigun Olushola Clinton

I once had a trouser...
Or say I got it from my brother...
It was so sleek,
straight, dark and lovely
that I loved and got it the first time I saw it.
It was my favorite..
The kind of pant you'd wear to a date in the day, leave on the waist all night
then wash up and watch to be dried by the upcoming light.
I loved the way it looked on me.
Gave a tough trust in myself and shaped the way people looked at me.
Smart and sweet it was
Of course it was made for me not us
so we could never share its long legs;
long enough for me and no one else.
I loved my black pant
Despite its habit of breaking my heart...
I hate that it's too careless
But when your love is true, what do you do?
'You care less!'
I cared so less or not at all
about its errors and shortcomings.
Made excuses for its faults but they never stopped coming..
Mended it some ways but it would never mend its ways
I kept amending its looseness-
too loved to be useless...
It wasn't its fault
that my pant's pocket couldn't hold stuffs for so long
It was smart and slim so its small pockets were really not wrong.
I had reasons to dump it but I didn't
I had dropped it a few times in the wardrobe but of love and pity,
still picked it in minutes
"How would I ever mean it..."
But eventually I did it
After it cost me my phones, some costly naira notes
And some things I didn't really note.
I was vexed, with shaky legs my pant could feel it...
I got home that night, closed my eyes and ripped it.
Now I have a better white trouser and I still can't believe it.
This is not part of the poem...
We all have black trousers..
We love them so much that their hurt really doesn't matter..
We keep up hopes
though they cost us so much; time, money,vision, tear drops and much more...
But we still hope an cope...
We make excuses for them,
Give rooms for their mistakes
But they never seem to plan to change their mean ways..
We hold on to them like they are the final last
Like we can't live if they leave.
But how were we living before they came to pass.
Perhaps we could go back to that.
There comes a time when we let go our beautiful black pants
so to get some wonderful whites...
I hope a soul gets blessed by this.


You can Contact him for your wedding, birthdays, funerals, anniversaries, church programs and more on +2347061032793 or +2348173933821 solarspeaks@yahoo.com; follow on Twitter: @solarspeaks, Facebook: Adigun Clinton Olushola or Solarspeaks.

Brexit hits Nigerian stocks, investors lose N278bn

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Investors in the country’s capital market recorded a loss of N278bn on Monday as concerns that the market might plummet due to the decision of Britain to leave the European Union heightened.
Some traders said there was the worry that the Brexit might slow foreign interest in the market.

The Nigerian Stock Exchange market capitalisation on Monday dropped to N10.248tn from N10.526tn, while the All-Share Index also declined to 29,840.23 basis points from 30,649.66 basis points recorded on Friday.
A total of 40 stocks recorded losses, while 16 made the gainers’ chart.
The market recorded a turnover of N4.027bn from 375.221 million shares traded in 4,229 deals.
United Capital Plc, Zenith Bank Plc, Stanbic IBTC Holdings Plc, Forte Oil Plc and Seplat Petroleum Development Company Limited were the top five losers on the chart.
United Capital’s share dropped by N0.22 (7.94 per cent) to close at N2.32 from N2.52, while that of Zenith Bank lost N1.04 (6.12 per cent) to close at N15.96 from N17.
Stanbic IBTC also closed at N16.15 from N17, losing N0.85 (five per cent), while Forte Oil posted a decline of N10 (five per cent) to close at N190 from N200.
The share price of Seplat Petroleum fell to N331.60 from N348.97, losing N17.37 (4.98 per cent).
Other losers were Dangote Sugar Refinery Plc, Oando Plc, Ikeja Hotels Plc, Guaranty Trust Bank Plc, Diamond Bank Plc, Fidelity Bank Plc, Flour Mills Nigeria Plc, AG Leventis Nigeria Plc, Sterling Bank Plc and Unity Bank Plc, among others.
Analysts said the stocks began the week on a negative footing as sell-offs across board prevailed. Asian markets shrugged off Friday’s global sell-off, while the European markets slid further as investors continued to weigh the impact of Britain’s decision. United States futures pointed to a lower open.
The NSE ASI and NSE 30 lost 2.63 per cent and 2.43 per cent, putting year-to-date returns at +4.19 per cent and +3.24 per cent, respectively.
The value of transactions was above May averages by 70 per cent, while the volume of transactions was below May averages by five per cent.
Fidson Healthcare Plc, Julius Berger Plc and GlaxoSmithkline Consumer Plc led the gainers chart, advancing by 9.91 per cent, five per cent and 4.97 per cent, respectively.
On Monday’s trading result, analysts at Vetiva Capital Management Limited said in the firm’s daily report, “Although we note the impact of broader downbeat global market sentiment, we believe today’s losses were largely fuelled by profit-taking across a handful of large cap stocks following the strength of the gains recorded in recent sessions. We think there’s still some room for profit-taking, and thus see a likelihood for another negative close in the session ahead.”

Source: PUNCH.

England disgraced by Iceland and knocked out of Euro 2016.

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England suffered their worst humiliation since they were knocked out of the 1950 World Cup by USA in Brazil as Iceland shocked them in the last 16 of Euro 2016.
England manager,Roy Hodgson resigned after the abject embarrassment of losing to a nation ranked 34th in the world despite taking the lead through Wayne Rooney's fourth-minute penalty.
Iceland equalised within a minute as England failed to deal with a trademark long throw and Ragnar Sigurdsson bundled home from close range.