Sunday 8 May 2016

East Germany's former first lady Dies In Chile

The former first lady of East Germany, Margot Honecker, has been cremated in Chile a day after she died of cancer at the age of 89.
Mrs Honecker had moved to South America in 1992, three years after the fall of the Berlin Wall.
In her own country she was known as the "purple witch", after her dyed hair, and because of the communist government’s repressive regime.

London elects Sadiq Khan,first Muslim mayor

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Sadiq Khan, a practicing Muslim and Labour Party politician, has been elected mayor of London, marking a political milestone in the Western world.
Londoners voted in Khan, 45, as the first Muslim mayor of a major Western capital city. He will take office in a metropolis where his fellow Muslims comprise about 12% of the population.
His victory followed an unusually bitter campaign against Conservative candidate Zac Goldsmith, the son of a billionaire, in which race and religion have proven ugly flashpoints.

Army Clears 7 More Villages Occupied By Insurgents In Borno

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The Nigerian Army says it has cleared seven more villages taken by suspected Boko Haram insurgents in Borno in its bid to end terrorism in the North East.
Col. Sani Usman, the Acting Director Army Public Relations, stated this in a statement issued in Maiduguri on Sunday.
“As the ongoing clearance and rescue operations gained momentum, troops of 28 Task Force Brigade have successfully cleared enclaves of Boko Haram terrorists along Galtha Baba, Galtha Musa, Bulakurma, Shatimari, Chukruk, Bulangaje, and Disa villages.
“During the operation, one Boko Haram terrorist was captured alive,” Usman said.
According to him, three motorcycles, bags of grains, terrorists’ flags and uniforms have also been recovered.
He listed other items recovered to include: suicide bomber’s hijab, a cell phone and one Dane gun, as well as foodstuffs and cooking utensils.”
“The troops also rescued 15 persons that were held hostage by the Boko Haram terrorists in the area,” Usman said.
He said that unfortunately, two Armoured Fighting Vehicles (AFVs) over ran an Improvised Explosive Device (IED), but however, said the formation did not sustain any human casualty as the damage to the AFVs was minimal.
The spokesman said that the captured terrorist was being interrogated and would soon be handed over to the relevant agencies for prosecution.”

How to Keep Money from Ruining Your Marriage

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While the divorce rate in the United States has plummeted over the years, the main culprit for the demise of marriages is still money. In a study completed by Kansas State University, researcher Sonya Britt found that arguments about money supersedes arguments about children, sex or in-laws in marriages.
Below are a few tips to minimize the amount of financial arguments in your marriage.
Maintain Open Communication

In order to establish a healthy financial environment for your marriage, an initial financial conversation should occur. Many people discuss finances after the proposal (usually during premarital counseling) but still don’t go into great detail regarding their current financial status. Discussing the amount of debt you and your spouse may have (as well as types including credit card, student loans, etc.), the exact credit score or your spending habits (frugal or live lavishly) can be a great conversation starter.
Create Goals

The initial conversation should lead you to goal setting.Establishing financial goals will allow you and your spouse to remain on the same page all while actively strengthening your household finances. For example, if you and your spouse have debt or aspire to have a higher credit score, create a detailed plan to pay down debt and a detailed plan to improve your credit. Also, maintaining weekly financial meetings will allow you to examine your status while working toward your goals.
Not all of your goals will focus on debt, as you and your spouse will have spending goals as well. If you have a certain amount of discretionary funds, how will that be spent and on which items? Create a list of household items that you want to purchase or items that you want to prepare for in the future (anything ranging from home renovations to family planning) and add this to your list of goals.
Manage Household Funds

Every household is different. Some married couples have one account while others have a three-account system: each person has their own bank account and there is one joint account. Before setting up these accounts, you should discuss the amount of funds that will go into each one – mainly the joint account. How will we use this joint account? Will there be an account solely for discretionary spending? Will we set up an account for a specific vacation?

Written by Alyssa

How to Stop Your Cell Phone from Ruining Your Relationship

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So you’re trying to have a decent conversation with your partner. They seem attentive until a noise from that shiny, flat object goes off. They quickly glance at the object, chuckle a bit then begin using their thumb to briskly type. In a few seconds, your conversation is over. Your partner can’t help it —it’s kryptonite.
You complain but they insist that they are listening to your every word. Unfortunately, you’re competing with a cell phone and you’re losing.
In a study by Joseph Grenny, author of Crucial Conversations, 87 percent of the 2,025 people surveyed reported that electronic displays of insensitivity (EDIs) – the intrusive or inappropriate use of technology – is worse today than a year ago. And nine out of 10 people say that at least once a week, their friends or family stop paying attention to them in favor of something happening on their digital device.
Unfortunately, one in four people say that EDIs have caused a serious rift with a friend or family member but suffer silently. Don’t let your cell phone habits harm your relationship by incorporating the strategies below.
Create Boundaries

We want to feel connected to the world all the time, but while doing so, we’re missing out on key moments with our partners. Implementing a ‘no cell phone’ policy during dinner or conversations will enhance your communication as well as help you become a better listener. In a poll surveying 143 women conducted by Dr. Brandon McDaniel and Dr. Sarah Coyne, one-quarter of the respondents said their partner has been known to text during face-to-face conversations.
“This is likely a circular process that people become trapped in where allowing technology to interfere, even in small ways, in one’s relationship at least sometimes causes conflict, which can begin to slowly erode the quality of their relationship,” said Dr. McDaniel.
Schedule Specific Time for Your Cell Phone
Since there will be times when you have to use your cell phone to check work email or to peruse articles, carve out time specifically for your cell phone (after the kids are in bed and after you and your partner spend quality time together). Even go a step further and give yourself an allotted amount of time per cell phone usage.
Save Important Conversations for a Face-to-Face Interaction

Stop having serious conversations with your partner via text. Texting should be used for concise communication like loving, flirtatious messages to your partner and not used for long, in-depth ones. In his article, ‘Why You Shouldn’t Text Your Argument’, John M. Grohol, Psy.D. states that “…the miscommunication and assumptions about what is being said will just start to pile on top of each other, confusing the receiver and adding even more miscommunication and hurt feelings into the mix.”

 Written by Alyssa Rachelle
Alyssa Rachelle is a writer and has been married for two years. She lives in the Atlanta area with her husband, 4-month-old daughter and 9-year-old Cocker Spaniel.

The Fight to Preserve Forgotten Rich Black History

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A dilapidated façade betrays the rich historical significance held within the walls of a Pittsburgh estate. Mystery Manor sits at the top of a hill on Apple Street in Homewood, a predominantly Black, lower income neighborhood. Homewood at the turn of the 20th century was a beacon for ethnic whites and upper middle class Blacks, drawn in by the affordable housing.
William “Woogie” Harris, brother of legendary photographer Charles “Teenie” Harris purchased the home in 1930 and turned it into a party house for Hollywood’s Black elite. It eventually became a boarding house for pre-civil rights era performers, who were banned from nearby lodgings. Lena Horne, Cab Calloway, Sarah Vaughn famously rented apartments there. Pittsburgh Pirate Roberto Clemente and heavyweight champion boxer Joe Louis frequented the grounds. The famed comings and goings gave rise to its moniker: Mystery Manor. The manor also served as headquarters for the National Negro Opera Company, the first African-American opera company in the United States.
Company founder Mary Cardwell Dawson auditioned and rehearsed classical singers from an office and studios on the home’s third floor. Though the company relocated to Washington, DC in 1951, Dawson continued to use the building for company business until her death in 1962.
Historical archivists and conservationists have fought for years to preserve the priceless, 7000-square foot piece of history.
Jonnet Solomon, a Guyanese immigrant, bought the house for just that purpose in 2007. She paid just $18,000.
“I wanted to do a service project for Pittsburgh,” Solomon told Curbed.com. “Saving a historic landmark seemed like a great project to me.”
The Pennsylvania Historical and Museum Commission deemed the home a historic structure in 1994 and it became a Pittsburgh City Historic Landmark in 2008. In 2013, the Young Preservationists of Pittsburgh listed the property as one of the city’s Top 10 preservation possibilities. Still, Solomon and countless others have failed to raise funds necessary to transform the decaying home into a suitable space and breathe life back into the surrounding neighborhood economy.
Historians say the town’s African American treasures are just not a priority for Pittsburgh officials, who have a history of turning the city’s Black landmarks into lots and roads.
Pittsburgh was home to multiple Black nightclubs and bars during the 20s and 30s. For those who couldn’t travel to Harlem in New York City, Pittsburgh venues were a welcome substitute.
Prohibition speakeasies and underground lotteries were easy money for enterprising Black millionaires, who couldn’t secure a loan at any bank in the city. Experts say African Americans thrived economically and culturally during, giving rise to the Harlem Renaissance and similar artistic explosions throughout the United States.
John Brewer runs the Trolley Station Oral History Center at the Greater Pittsburgh Coliseum in Homewood.
Brewer told the Post-Gazette Pittsburgh’s wealthy Black citizens, like Woogie Harris, played “numbers” for survival.
“The African-American community was a community isolated to itself,” Brewer said. “African-Americans were not working at Kaufmann’s or Gimbels or Horne’s. The banks weren’t giving out 3 percent loans. They were not addressing any financial needs. People had to do what they had to do to survive. The numbers game provided jobs. These gentlemen perpetuated the financial structure of the African-American community.”
Brewer estimated 90 percent of local businesses were financed by “numbers” and Harris’s, which employed up to 4000 people at one time, provided him with the money to purchase Mystery Manor in the first place.
Manor homeowner Solomon said she has no plans to give up on the renovation and continues to meet with private investors in hopes of preserving the invaluable benchmark.

Written by Shaundra Selvaggi