Hello house,a mother and a wife from Canada who is a follower of the blog sent me a mail to counsel her,i read the mail so i am sending her post to you all so that you all can counsel her.
Here is it:
I am a mom of three kids, my older two are from a previous
relationship. My husband and I have been married for 4 years now, and in the
beginning things were great.. isn't always like that?? Well, the first year of
our marriage, both of us were working full time, so no money issues. In our
second year of marriage, I was still working full time, but my husband lost his
job when I was 7 months pregnant with our son. Well, that is when things went
downhill. I helped him with everything. I paid all the bills and helped him
also, but it became too much so I broke the lease to our apartment and moved
back in with my mom. We were having major issues with our marriage. We
continued to live separately for over a year, and then decided that it was time
to try again. He was working, but now I wasn't due to my health issues with
cervical cancer and anemia. Now, he is out of the country taking care of his
ailing mother, and yet he keeps asking me for money. I told him that I am tired
of it. I understand every once in a blue moon, but I am not an ATM and I am not
giving him any more money. I have bills and kids to take care of. He said to me
that until I send him money, he is not speaking to me. I think it's immature,
and I am just ready to throw in the towel and get a divorce, but marriage is
forever. I told him that I am looking into getting a divorce, and he says that
if I file, he will sue me because half of my money is his, and I refused to
help him while in need. My car was repossessed over 2 years ago, because I was
helping him. I know it was foolish, but I never let that happen again. What do
I do? I tried to talk to him, and I told him that I think that he is using me,
he says he is not. He says it's not about the money, it's about principle. What
do I do?
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