Saturday 31 October 2015

15 THINGS EVERY LADY SHOULD HAVE BEFORE MARRIAGE


Before your wedding there are many things you must have to make your life and family pleasant,they are:
1) A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD
You must have a personal relationship with God to be a Virtuous woman,great mother and a solid wife. Your beauty is not enough to make a great home, you will need God at every stage of your life.
2) A SELF DISCOVERY
Discover who you are,know your purpose,know who you are,what you were created to do.
3) GET A JOB
A good Job is a must before you hit the altar for wedding,don't be a liability to your husband.
4) COOKING UTENSILS
Pots,spoons,forks,blenders,ovens,juicers,Smoothy marching and all others kitchen utensils are things you must have as a mature lady before your wedding.
5) FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE
You are not ripe enough for marriage if you are still relying on your parents for sustenance,get financially independent before you say I do.
6) GET A VISION
Be a woman of vision,be a woman of the future,live for posterity not just for prosperity.
7) BECOME A WOMAN NOT A GIRL
Grow up,become a woman stop been a Girl,marriage is for women not a place for girls in diapers.
8) GET A Phd IN KITCHEN TECHNOLOGY
Get deep knowledge of the art of cooking and food preparation. A good woman should be a great cook. Boiling,cooking,frying,garnishing,baking should be your hobby,if it is not you will need to step up.
9) GET A MASTER IN HOME MANAGEMENT
You must master the art of home management before you go into marriage,if you don't know how to manage a home you will damage it.
10) DEEP UNDERSTANDING OF MEN
Get to know who men are,what they want and how to satisfy your own man.
11) DEEP UNDERSTANDING OF MARRIAGE
Get to know what marriage is all about,what makes it work and what can destroy it.
12) DEEP UNDERSTANDING OF MOTHERHOOD
Become a mother in your mind,attitude and actions,learn about motherhood,it is an art,you need to learn it,it doesn't happen by intuition.
13) GET INDEPENDENT FROM PARENTS
If you are still been control by your Parents,you are not FREE from your mothers apron,you are not ready for marriage.
14) GET INDEPENDENT FROM FRIENDS
Get free from your friends,if friends are still the one ruling your life,you are not ready for marriage
15) GET TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN HUSBANDS AND BOYFRIENDS
You need to know that husbands are different from boyfriends,a boyfriend first need may be beauty but a husband first need is respect
I strongly advise you get these two books
PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE and
YOUR CHARACTER IS YOUR MARRIAGE
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