“Are you a great husband? Do you want to be one’? Do you want to be a husband the wife will adore honour and hero-worship? Then all you just need to do is to develop the trait of great husband and have the trait of a great dad.
(1) THE FEAR OF THE LORD – The first trait of a great husband is the fear of the Lord. he fear the lord enough to obey his word, he fear the lord enough to love and provide for his wife, no husband can be said to be great if he is not somebody that fears the lord.
(2) HE IS OF A GODLY CHARACTER – A great husband is of a Godly character, he is meek, gentle, caring, loving, ready to forgive supportive, wise and talk with wisdom.
He is not stingy, he is honest, doesn’t go to night clubs, he doesn’t drink, smoke or unfaithful to his wife.
(3) HE IS IN LOVE – He loves his wife with all his heart and he is not ashame to let anybody know this. He expresses the love to the wife at any given opportunity.
(4) HE RESPECT AND HONOUR HIS WIFE – When you see a man that embarrass his wife in the public, he is a baby husband, he is not a great man. A great husband respect and honour his wife and give all glory to God.
(5) HE IS A GOOD COMMUNICATOR – There is nothing a woman want more than to be talk to and to listen passionately to her when – She talks, a great husband is good in this. He is open to his wife, he speaks the truth in love, and he is always positive in his reaction to his wife.
(6) HE IS A GREAT LEADER – He is never a boss, he is a leader, he knows how to make his people follow him without forcing them. he has vision and he share the vision with his family, he influence the family and give them good examples, he makes his people work without warring with them, he make them do all things with joy.
(7) HE IS DILIGENT – A great husband is a worker, he is not lazy, he knows that favour comes only on the train of labour, he put his hands to work and make bread available to his family.
(8) HE SATISFY HIS WIFE BEDROOM DESIRES – A great husband is romantic, he knows how to make his wife enjoy him, he is tender, patient and careful with the, wife in the bedroom, he knows that foreplay is a must if a woman must enjoy sex, hence he never rush the wife but bring her up before any sexual act.
(9) HE GIVES HIS WIFE PEACE – The wife of a great husband is always sad to see him leave because he is a man of peace, no fighting, no bitter argument, no abusing or cursing, no shouting, malice, bitterness ” resentment, bickering and hatred with a great husbanl1. he is, a source of joy to his darling wife.
(10) HE IS COMMITTED TO MAKE HIS MARRIAGE WORK : He never threatens the wife with beating, separation or divorce, he is ready to give his marriage anything it takes to make it work, his wife his number one in his life after God, his wife is thinking partner friend, prayer partner, bed mate, soul mate, lover one and only.
Written by Bisi Adewale
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 60 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale , 08068312004, 08051512823,
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