9 dress Style Tips For Young Men

Too many young men are starting their professional lives without a clue as to how to dress.Young men are the future leaders of society, and dressing sharp is the first step towards becoming a professional.

 Dress Your Footwear Up
 Starting from the ground up, appropriate-fitting footwear is the first step to dressing sharp.
 If you’ve never owned really good shoes before, brace yourself and get ready to pay a significant amount of money for well-made, classic footwear.A good pair of dress shoes will last you years and stay good-looking with nothing more than some light cleaning and the occasional shine.

 Dress to Look Older
 

The way you dress is the way you are addressed.

If you’re still wearing clothes that scream “student days” you’re going to be treated like a boy with no experience in the real world.

Ignore Fashion Trends.
 

Most young men don’t have the budget to buy new pants every month or two — so stay away from pants that are only presentable during an “in” season.

Distressed or bleached jeans are a great example; several different designer labels briefly managed to sell the image on the public, and then the fad changed and left a lot of people with very expensive jeans too beat-up to wear in public.

Take Care of Your Clothing.
 

Generally speaking, being young means having less money to throw around.

If you’ve shelled out for a few pieces of good, quality clothing — a custom suit, a pair of expensive dress shoes, what have you — it’s worth a few bucks more to keep the clothes in good shape.

That means using good hangers for your suits, shoe trees for your shoes, and a little tender loving care with the washing machine.

Some of your clothes can come from thrift shops, if you’re lucky enough to have a reasonably common body type and some well-to-do neighborhoods nearby.

 

 Have at Least One Good Suit in the Closet

 

 No matter what your job is, you’re going to need a decent suit at some point.If you’re in a field where you’re going to wear one regularly you should look for a variety of colors and styles; if you just need a single suit for infrequent dress occasions stick with a classic single-breasted, two-button suit in charcoal gray or navy blue.

 Replace T-shirts with Polos and Sport Shirts

Wearing T-shirts to the gym or when you are performing house chores is fine.
But wearing T-shirts to social events or to work is a no-no, especially when the shirt is too big and made from a shoddy fabric advertising the company who gave it to you a decade ago.

Former Bayelsa Governor, Diepreye Alamieyeseigha Dies of cardiac arrest

The Bayelsa State Commissioner for Information, Esueme Dan-Kikili, confirmed to some media firms that the former governor died of cardiac arrest on Saturday.
He reportedly slipped into a coma two days ago and was placed on life support.
There were reports during the week that the British Government was determined to resurrect an outstanding case of money laundering against the former governor and had requested for his extradition to London.

An illiterate Father(Akpos) with his Educated

An illiterate Father(akpos) with his Educated son went on a camping trip. They set up their tent and fell asleep.
Some hours later, Akpos wakes his Son up and asks ” Look up to the sky and tell me what you see?” son: “I see millions of stars.”
Akpos: “What does that tell you son?
Son: “Astronomically, it tells me that there are millions of Galaxies & Planets.”
Akpos slaps Son hard and says, “You idiot! Pesin don thief our Tent(meaning,Someone has stolen our tent)

Clark’s depiction of Jonathan is heretic revisionism -Obahiagbon

Former member of the House of Representatives of the Federal Republic of Nigeria, Mr. Patrick Obahiagbon, has described as ‘’heretic revisionism’’ the recent depiction of former President Goodluck Jonathan by elder-statesman, Dr. Edwin Clark, as weak.

 Patrick Obahiagbon

EDWIN CLARK

Obahiagbon, presently the Chief of Staff to Governor Adams Oshiomhole of Edo State in a statement made available to Saturday Vanguard said:
“I read with smug satiation and righteous indignation the abjuration of Chief Edwin Clark to the effect that “Jonathan didn’t have the political will power to fight corruption…..Drivers of yesterday are living in palatial buildings now under his government”.
“I would expect that this animadversion from Papa Clark would put an irrefragable quietus to all Jonathanian political jingoists still spewing and yarning Goebbelian sputum in support of former President Jonathan. This is because if there exists anybody who should have intimate knowledge of the concentric layers of malversation that characterized the failed Jonathan administration, it would be Papa Clark, the self proclaimed father of Jonathan. But has Papa Clark said anything new? The answer is a resounding NO and that was why Nigerians voted for President Buhari in their gargantuan numbers. Am happy that President
Buhari is already discharging his historical duties to our admiration.
“But that it took the eschewable fall of Jonathan for Papa Clark to peregrinate the road of the biblical Damascus and the scales thus falling off the eyes of Jonathan’s political father is not only execrable but demonstrates a putrid and rancid narration of the story of Nigeria’s political class as a Damnosa Hereditas.”

The Keys to a Successful Relationship

 Being in a loving long-term romantic relationship is one of the surest routes to long term happiness. But it doesn’t happen naturally, it requires certain skills. The good news is that these skills can all be developed, they’re all skills you should already be developing, and they’ll help you with all your other relationships as well. Here they are:

Expectations: Discuss what you each expect out of the relationship, what you’re committing to, and what your respective roles will be.
Expect ups and downs in even the best relationship, and realize that love isn’t an absolute that you’re either in or out of but something that ebbs and flows over time.
Openness: Open communication is necessary to genuinely know your partner and let them know you. You can’t help your partner utilize their strengths, move in the direction of their passions, and realize their dreams if you don’t know their strengths, passions, and dreams.
You also need to discuss attitudes toward the topics that cause nearly all relationship problems: gender roles, money, relatives, sex, and children.
Intimacy: Work at strengthening your closeness, because there is no stasis; if you aren’t getting closer together, you’re drifting further apart. Foster intimacy though honesty, acceptance, and trust. Spend time together. Touch. And for at least a few minutes a day, stare into each other’s eyes.
Caring: Be as concerned for their well-being as for your own, and look for opportunities to make their life better. Help them to succeed, and celebrate their successes with them.
Empathy: See things from your partner’s perspective as well as your own. Seek to understand before seeking to be understood.
Respect: Respect your partner, and act in a way that earns their respect, both inside and outside the relationship. Respect them even when you’re disagreeing. Listen without judgment. Accept them as they are, and don’t try to change them, but help them to change in ways they want to change. Focus on your partner’s strengths and cultivate a high opinion of them.
Self-Respect: It’s much easier for someone to like you when you like yourself. Don’t compromise your authenticity or sacrifice who you are for the sake of the relationship. And don’t put your partner’s needs above your own; treat each of you as equally important.
Constructive Disagreement: When disagreeing, don’t criticize, don’t blame, and don’t be hurtful or bitter. Most relationship problems start with hurt feelings that escalate. Learn to manage differences and conflict through communication, negotiation, and cooperation.
Solve problems as they arise, and never go to sleep angry.
Teamwork: Make decisions together, with the interests of both given equal weight. In the best relationships, each person cares as much about the other as about themselves.

Praying together: Make time together and pray together.

Positivity: Have the celebration of life and of each other be the emotional tone of the relationship. Say positive things to and about your partner at least five times more often than you say negative things.
Gratitude: Don’t take the relationship for granted. You are becoming an amazing person, in the fortunate position to be highly selective about whom you spend time with. You have chosen a wonderful person to build a life with, and you are blessed that they have chosen you as well.
Adventure and Variety: Share new, exciting, challenging activities with them. Seek out and embrace spontaneity together. Foster bonding and intimacy by infusing each day with spontaneity. Make romance and seduction lifelong passions.

Written by Tom murcko

It's My Turn To Get Married

 
It is the will of God that all His children get married at the right time, raise children and enjoy long life.
What are the causes of late marriage? How can we overcome them?
Why is a beautiful lady with good academic qualification and lucrative job lack a suitor? These and many more are what this book attempt to answer.

This book is for all categories of people:

• Young singles should read it to know how to avoid some mistakes that can lead to late marriage
• Advanced singles should also read it to know how to correct themselves and connects to right partners
• Pastors and parents will also find it useful to counsel singles and correct them when they are making mistakes  .To get a copy: Plaza, 525 Agege Motor Road, Beside Majok Petrol Station, Ladipo/Alasia Bus-stop, Oshodi Lagos, Nigeria.
  
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HOW TO USE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION TO MAKE YOUR EX WANT YOU BACK

In other to get your ex boyfriend back even when you realise that you are the one at fault,use the law of attraction.it is the simplest natural method to apply in wining your ex. Notwithstanding the cause of the break up, even if it was as a result of infidelity with his best friend or disrespect to his siblings, this method is available to aid you in getting your ex boyfriend at the position you want him to be. Men and women who combined this law of attraction with the other method has successfully won their ex back at their side.
Tips on applying the law:
 The law of attraction states "that which is like unto itself is drawn to itself." Once you ignite the inner force within you, your magnetic force will begin to attract whatever thing you desire or think of either positive or negative. As long as you desire to win your ex boyfriend back, you will magnetically find yourself getting your ex back without deliberate actions. As the saying goes, "knock and it shall be open." This is all you need to turn the hands of the clock to your direction.
 All you need to do is believe and follow the law of attraction, the other method that need to be combined to get back your ex without struggling and feeling desperate.
Step 1: Agree mentally and physically that you want to get back your ex boyfriend.
Step 2: Visualize want you want in your mind’s eye.
Step 3: Combine the law of attraction with this other technique to get your ex boyfriend fast.
Step 4: Receive your ex boyfriend back with open hands.
Step 5: Pray.It is only through praying and fasting that your lost love will return

written by Alphonso

4 Things You Need to Quit Today

When it comes to quitting and Africa especially Nigerians, there are many slogans, sayings and motivational messages that encourage people not to quit.I wholeheartedly agree with those encouragements, especially because I love raising up people to live as overcomers. In fact, I spend a lot of my invested time helping people not to give up But there are some things that we should quit.I want to share four things you need to quit doing as soon as you can.

 1. Quit Beating Yourself Up.
If I was to walk into the minds of young people these days, I would have to call family and young peoples services to come and arrest them, because most people’s thoughts about themselves are not kind. Most of their self-talk is actually abusive. Filled with guilt, shame and regret, we listen to these thoughts and pound at ourselves in hate, contempt and rejection. Many people are so familiar with this toxic world of thought that they don’t know otherwise.God did not design us to bear under these kinds of thoughts. He made our bodies to live in thoughts based on love, especially patience and kindness. Thoughts that are unloving towards ourselves become very deadly. They kill our health and destroy our sanity. Yet millions of people listen to thoughts that are so harsh and try to do things out of those unloving impulses.Today, quit listening to any thought that is not kind and empowering towards yourself.

 Quit Investing in People Who Don’t Want to Be Helped.
The energy of so many is being wasted as they invest countless hours into someone who is not interested in changing, but remaining a victim. Many good intentioned people get sucked into the vortex of victim community, helping people who are so used to their dysfunctional life they wont hear about entering into a new life by their own choices. They choose by their decisions to remain in their junk. Those who live as victims look to prey off loved ones and friends to affirm their victim state and continue to pour into that mindset.This means we have to let go of performance, striving and people pleasing. We have to let go of trying to change other people when they are not doing their part at all. We cannot take the sins of others into our own bodies.

 Quit Investing So Much Time in Something You Are Not Called To.
When you’re off your gift and calling, it is extremely taxing and frustrating. This doesn’t mean that living in your calling and gift mix does not have trouble. There is a ton of resistance that will come against you breaking into your divine destiny. The problem is I watch so many people investing in something they are not clearly called to.
The Bible says that your gift makes of a man makes room for him,it brings him before kings,not rogues. The most challenging conversations I have is with people who are clearly not in their calling. The biggest sign of someone who says they are called to something, but it is not evident, is really simple: They are not doing NOW what they say they are called to do. For example, they say they are musical artists entertaining the youths all over the world, but they don’t go to where they will entertain the young person right next to them. They claim they are going to blow to nations, but wont help out in their environment.how many people in your environment know that you are artistic?.The problem is that we don’t value who we are and who we are made to be. So we often chase something for the feeling and esteem we think that position will bring. We end up chasing something that is not us.

 Quit Waiting for Life to Just Fall on You and Bless You.
The classic mistake among many involves one of the biggest Christian excuses of all time–“I am just waiting on the Lord.” The meaning of this phrase has lots its meaning with so many, becoming a colloquialism to cover up the fact that we are really doing nothing.
Waiting on God is not passive, but very active. We spend a lot of time growing in who we are, preparing the grid of our lives for where we see Him calling us and investing in the soil we are in now. Most live in a world of passivity; waiting for the call, waiting for the money to come in and waiting for a open door.

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Unknown Model in Focus

John Adigo, from Delta state who lives in lagos,Nigeria is an aspiring upcoming model from Ambrose Ali University-level2 
He believes everyone should be given a second chance inspite of their weaknesses.
He loves Singing, swimming and going to the gym to do some workout 
He can be reached on  +2347035870855,+234810 058 4131