If I ask you what kind of husband are you? What will you
say? If I ask you what class of husband is yours, how will you answer? Do you
know that all husbands are not the same, they come in different classes,
degrees and categories. You need to take time to read this so as to know
the kind of Husband you are and try as
much as possible to Improve.
Here are the Classes of Hubands:
4th CLASS HUSBAND: Fourth class husband is the worst Husband
any Man can be. He is a terrible husband,wife beater, difficult, unloving,
uncaring. He sees himself as a Master in the house, may be an emperor that must
be worshipped by all. He dictates, punished, fights, shout, command, decree and
order is wife around, he is a slave Master and Commander in Chief of Family
forces. Can also be wicked, unyielding, unbending and unloving. No woman can
enjoy life under a Fourth Class Husband.
3rd CLASS HUSBAND: These kind of Men are better than forth
Class husband. They are The HEAD of their Family, but do become headache of
their wives. They trow the headship to the face of their wives always, they
often say “I am the head of this family” “if you don’t obey me there can be no
peace in this house” They don’t operate out of love at all, they use orders
even in the bedroom with their wives, they are not emotional, can be really
difficult to live with as they use tradition, Custom and Religion to box their
wives to a corner.
They often quote Ephesian 5:22 to make their wives submit,
but often ignores Ephesian 5:25
2nd CLASS HUSBAND:
Second Class Husbands Combines both Headship and Leadership. They are
not just The Head of their Families, they are leaders at home. Unlike 3rd Class
husbands who rule by orders, 2nd Class Husbands lead by consultation, They
consult widely with their Wives and Children before Making a decision on
anything that concerns them and the
Family.
They will never leave the home without informing their
families of their whereabout, mission and their likely time of return
They lead their family through vision and communication,
they are visionary and futuristic in their thinking.
1st CLASS HUSBAND: First Class husbands are the best husbands,
they combine the quality of a 2nd Class husband with exceptional love, care,
kindness, service, sacrifice and Romance.
They are not just leading,they are loving, they are not just
Husbands, they are Lover Boys.
First Class Husbands are not seeing themselves as
traditional husbands of their wives, who leads by Military fiat, turning the
home to a garrison Command, making life difficult for all. They still their
wives Boy friends, they do everything to make their wives happy, treating them
like First Ladies, Princess and the queens of their lives.
To learn more on how to be a caring and loving husband get a
copy of my book “SECRET OF AN IRRESISTIBLE HUSBAND”
Remain blessed
Written by Pastor Bisi Adewale
Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert;
author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 70 other books on marriage
and family life. You can reach him on familybooster@gmail.com, 08068312004,
08051512823, BB: 2AF5C883, Blog:
www.bisiadewale.com, Website:www.familybooster.com
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