START WITH A BUSINESS IDEA

If you are tired of what you are going through,then start something small.The truth is, however, you don’t have to have a lot of money, or a special skill, to start a business. Just to prove the point, we’ve come up with few simple, easy to execute ideas that you can use today, with very little investment, to start your road to entrepreneurship.

Start an evening class teaching basic computer skills.
This might include an introduction to various aspects of the Windows operating system, plus how to use a web browser to surf the internet, and how to use an email program.

Start a self-defence class specialising in martial arts. Find suitable premises to hold the classes. If you don`t have the necessary qualifications advertise for qualified experts to teach for you. Pay them a set fee or a percentage of the profits. Advertise the classes in the local newspaper, shop windows and community noticeboards.

 Start your own school for dancing.
If you have the experience and patience to teach children, or adults, then why not put your skills to good use by offering dancing classes part-time? Whether it`s tap, ballet or ballroom dancing, there will always be a number of people who will want to learn. Particularly young children who are often encouraged by their parents. Finding suitable premises is the main hurdle. Once a location is found advertise your classes in the local press.

 Start and run weekend courses in landscape painting or photography.
If you`re a creative type with a good knowledge of painting or photographic techniques, then why not set up a course teaching other people how to paint or photograph landscapes like an expert. The course could include an occasional trip to areas of natural beauty to gain practical experience, as well as classroom theory. There are lots of people looking for ways to spend their leisure time, and painting and photography are two of the most popular subjects for newcomers seeking to improve or take up a new hobby.

Teach the English language. This would be aimed at foreign students and residents who want to improve their English and writing skills. This can be done on a personal one-to-one basis in the person`s own home, or with a group of people at an evening class. This would make a good part-time opportunity for a qualified teacher to supplement their income.

Teach a foreign language.
A foreign resident who speaks good English should have no difficulty in finding students who wish to learn their language through personal tuition. French, German, Spanish and Italian are probably the most popular choices. But other languages are also in demand. Advertise your service in the local and regional press.

 Teach people how to sail.
Here is another popular activity that holidaymakers like to participate in at seaside and lakeside resorts. A similar operation to the one previously described for windsurfing could be set up, only this time your teaching skills would be based on your expert knowledge of handling small sailing craft. Apart from the obvious requirement of having a place to keep your boats, make sure that you have the correct insurance to cover all eventualities.

 Become a sports instructor.
If you`re a keen sportsmen with skills or qualifications in any particular area, you should seriously consider teaching others how to improve their game. A good instructor can easily make a good part-time income from teaching one of the following sports: Golf, tennis, swimming, football, rugby, athletics, gymnastics etc. If you`re suitably qualified, approach your local sports club to see if any vacancies are available, or set up your own class by hiring suitable facilities and charging for personal tuition.

Become an aerobics instructor.
Here again, someone with suitable qualifications can start their own part-time classes teaching aerobics on a regular basis. Aerobics is one of the more popular activities used to help people get fit. Classes of twenty people or more are not unusual. Advertise your courses in the local press and sports centres.

  Written by Yinka olawunmi(Visioneer Success system int'l)

How to develop your communication skills

 

Effective communication skills are fundamental to success in many aspects of life.  Many jobs require strong communication skills and socially people with improved communication skills usually enjoy better interpersonal relationships with friends and family.

Effective communication is a key interpersonal skill and by learning how we can improve our communication has many benefits.

The following list includes links to other pages at SkillsYouNeed that can help you further improve your communication skills.

 Learn to listern
Listening is not the same as hearing; learn to listen not only to the words being spoken but how they are being spoken and the non-verbal messages sent with them.  Use the techniques of clarification to confirm what the other person has said and avoid any confusion.  Try not to think about what to say next whilst listening; instead clear your mind and focus on the message being received.Your friends, colleagues and other acquaintances will appreciate your good lisening skills.

Be Aware of Other Peoples Emotions

Be sympathetic to other people's misfortunes and congratulate their positive landmarks.  To do this you need to be aware of what is going on in other people’s lives.  Make and maintain eye contact and use first names where appropriate.  Do not be afraid to ask others for their opinions as this will help to make them feel valued.Consider the emotional effect of what you are saying and communicate within the norms of behaviour acceptable to the other person. Take steps to become more CHARISMATIC.

Empathise

Empathy is trying to see things from the point-of-view of others. When communicating with others, try not to be judgemental or biased by preconceived ideas or beliefs - instead view situations and responses from the other person’s perspective.  Stay in tune with your own emotions to help enable you to understand the emotions of others. If appropriate, offer your personal viewpoint clearly and honestly to avoid confusion.  Bear in mind that some subjects might be taboo or too emotionally stressful for others to discuss. 

 Encourage

Offer words and actions of encouragement, as well as praise, to others. Make other people feel welcome, wanted, valued and appreciated in your communications. If you let others know that they are valued, they are much more likely to give you their best.  Try to ensure that everyone involved in an interaction or communication is included through effective body language and the use of open questions.

Special Advice for Single Ladies

1. Guys love to marry an Independent and Matured lady… So instead of sitting there and waiting to be bluffed by a guy, focus on getting a career that would take you out of the house wife category…
2. Never let the sweet talks of MOST guys deceive you, sometimes all they just want is to have easy access between your legs and run off thereafter.
3. Remove the mentality from your mind that guys will keep springing up to approach you. The older you get by the day, the less toasters you will have.
4. Playing ‘too’ hard to get is the worst thing you should ever start, remember, Nothing lasts forever. If you still doubt, check out the number of matured single ladies looking up to GOD FOR A MIRACLE (Husband).
5. Never extort things from a guy you don’t love, guys always have ways of paying a girl back, either through their FRIENDS or total ‘PAID’ STRANGERS….BE CAREFUL.
6. Never be deceived you can trap a guy through s^x. A man will also return to his wife who s^x starves him for years once he loves and trust her. You can never win a man over with your body.
7. If all you take to the relationship is the mind set to EXTRACT MONEY from him, don’t complain if all he ask from you is your body. He has seen you have nothing else to offer…
8. Don’t be fooled when Guys tell you they have never met a prettier girl, they will say that same thing to an 80year old woman they want to get intimate with.
9. A guy always taking you to the SILVER-BIRD, FAST FOOD (pizza in or galitos), MALL AND EVENTS AT CONFERENCE CENTER/NATIONAL THEATRE is no sign that he loves you, if he doesn’t care to ask and PLAN YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER then you are just his ‘SOCIAL MATE’ and nothing else….
10. If the only time he invites you over is when he needs to cook, clean the house and do his laundry, then just know you are his “executive house help”.
11. If he avoids meeting your family and close friends then it is an obvious sign he is just playing games with you.
12. Don’t always change the tv station from NTV to CHANNEL O, MTV and Fashion TV. Take time to find out what is bothering him and how you can help out.
13. If the only places he doesn’t frown when you enter are his bedroom and kitchen then know you aren’t welcome (only being used).
Have you noticed that most of the ladies that end up being emotionally abused are the ones at the receiving end… Always with open arms, requesting for something and ready to receive… The more you widen your arms, the more he widens your legs.
A grown up guy who gives the excuse about his parents being wild when he brings female visitors to the house is a sign that HE HAS A SERIOUS GIRL AND HAS INTRODUCED HER TO HIS PARENTS ALREADY… ADVISE YOURSELF…
FINALLY, I ALWAYS SAY THIS AND WILL REPEAT IT AGAIN… It’s better to be sitting in a taxi smiling happily than to be in your husband’s fresh air conditioned BMW x6 with bruised eyes wearing a fresh Gucci shades alongside a Burberry scarf….
JUST REMEMBER, THAT DATING A RICH MAN DOESN’T GUARANTEE HAPPINESS IN MARRIAGE… MONEY IS
NOT EVERYTHING….. MAKING RIGHT CHOICES IN LIFE IS WHAT MATTERS MOST!

Written by Abiola 

MAJOR REASONS ARTISTIC TALENTS ARE LEAVING THE CHURCH

What is a talent?

Talent means the skill that someone has quite naturally to do something that is hard. Someone who has talent is able to do something without trying hard. It is an ability that someone is born with. It is a high degree of ability or of aptitudes. People may have talent for music,dancing acting or other skills. Someone who has talent is talented and If someone has talent they still have to work very hard if they want to be very good at something. Some people become quite good at something even if they do not have much talent, but if they are willing to work very hard at the skill. Some people “waste their talent” (they have talent but do not work hard at it, they do not use their talent.
 It's becoming increasingly popular for artists and creative artists to leave the church in search of deeper fulfillment. But why? What is it about the local church that is failing to capture the attention of this generation? Why are so many leaving the church? Why is serving the local church not capturing the imagination of our young musicians, writers, dancers, painters, and videographers?It's not about the money. We already know that creatives aren't just looking for the biggest paycheck. They crave, more than anything else, to do work that matters - to have freedom to create.
 The church is made up of all kinds of people–businessmen and women, farmers, industrial workers, theologians, teachers, blue collar, white collar, entrepreneurs, servants, and leaders–but there’s one group of people that the church is in danger of losing: her creative talents.
Dbanj,Banky W, Terry G, P-Square, Wande Coal, Dare Art Alade, KC Presh started from the church but they ended in the circular world because of one major reason.
That reason is that church culture has made it difficult for artistic people to express their creativity so they go into the world because the world accepts them better,so why are artistic people leaving your church?
I’m not trying to condemn the church, but I do know that the Reformation, which was a great movement by the way, was also partly responsible for throwing out church art to fight against the worship and veneration of images. However, in reaction, the church started to embrace a more austere and plain worship style–one where the arts and artists where no longer valued, and to some degree, kicked out with the icons. It was right to put a stop to the worship of images, but as a backlash, I think we’ve been fighting an anti-creative current for generations as a result.
The bottom line: the church at large needs to learn, once again, how to embrace and empower its creatives.
We need a creative revolution.
Not a revolution that makes creativity king, but a revolution that seeks to embrace artists. A revolution that restores value to their Kingdom contribution in deeper ways

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5 Things You Should Never Say To Your child when Angry

If you’re angry with your child, don’t say a word without first considering the impact it’s going to have on your child. Children sure know how to get on your nerve, but you must control your emotions and get your point across in a rational manner without doing any damage to the emotional development of your children.

Angry on not, stressed out by Nigerian traffic or problems, here are five things a mother or father must not be caught saying to his or her children, no matter how upset she is:

1. You are a mistake!

One of the most deadly sin of parenting is telling your child that his/her birth stole your life away, whether you are a single mother or married mother who had an unwanted pregnancy; don’t transfer your bitterness and resentment to your child. Getting pregnant and having the child is totally your decision so take responsibility for it. No matter what a child has done, don’t ever say he/she is a waste of space or that you should have had an abortion when you had the chance. It is a hurtful thing that no child should hear. It makes them feels like an intruder that disrupted your life and not worthy of love.

2. Why Can’t You Be More Like Your Sister

If you think your child isn’t doing so well, help the child out in a constructive way. Comparing them to others can destroy their self esteem, make them fatally competitive and even damage their relationship with the child you are comparing them to. They could also think that they can only get your approval when they are like someone else and that you don’t love them for who they are. Help your children see the beauty in their own uniqueness by focusing on each individual without using comparisons, when you compare them to others you are indirectly telling them they are not good enough and if they internalize that as a core belief it can lead to undesirable behaviors in the future.

3. Your Father is Good For Nothing

As much as you would want to, you need to bite your tongue on this one. Do not speak negatively about your husband or your children’s father to them. If you are having problems with your spouse talk to an adult don’t put that burden on your children, they are kids and they can’t fully understand complex adult issues. Don’t let them have to worry for you, it will hurt the children and paint negative pictures about relationships to them at any early age. Knowing that their parents are not at peace can also make them fearful and insecured.

As they grow older, they will become much more aware of what is going on, and if your partner really hurt you, they will find out one day anyway. Spare them the headache when they are still young.

4. You should be ashamed of yourself / I am ashamed of you

You can tell your children you are disappointed in their behavior and make them sober for what they have done without shaming them into feeling guilty. There are times when shaming works and produces the behavior we want from a child, but most times it comes along with the feeling of inferiority that can last a life time. The children will carry on the message of “I am wrong,” “I’m not enough,” and “I can never do anything right.”

One act of indiscipline from your children is not enough for you to be ashamed of them or to make them feel ashamed of themselves. We all make mistakes and the important thing is accepting correction, they should never be defined by the mistakes they have made. You don’t even want your children to think you will love them less when they make mistakes.

5. You Are Dumb, You Are So Stupid …

You hurt your child’s feelings every time you use negative words to describe them. Even if the child acts silly often, don’t tag the child as silly. Being called names continuously can leave the child truly believing that he or she is worthless and defective, and they may carry that feeling into adulthood. If you call your child clumsy and stupid every day, what are the chances that the child will stop acting stupid? The child will simply believe he or she can’t be smart like other kids and stop trying to succeed. So if you call your children dumb they are really going to think they are dumb.

Written by Bisi Adewale

12 Signs He's Only Interested in Sex and not marriage

 If he really interested in relationship that will end up in marriage or he wants you to be his sex tou,these are the signs you will know so that you don't waste your time with such people.

1. He only texts you after 1 a.m. It's a scientific fact that all booty calls happen after 1 a.m. All those cars you see driving around after 12:59? People out in the streets past 1? They're all on their way to a booty call.
2. He gets frustrated when you invite him over to watch a movie and actually just want to watch a movie. Most guys would be like, "Alright, cool. If I can't have sex, I guess actually getting to watch the entirety of The Hunger Games: Catching Fire is a pretty good consolation prize." But when you swat away his thigh-climbing hand he's suddenly tired and has to go home.
3. You never meet his friends. The less information you have about him, the easier it is for him to ghost you. If you don't know who he hangs out with, or where he lives, or what his last name is, he can disappear like a phantom into the night. A phantom who banged you a bunch of times and then stopped answering texts, which would make for a shittier Broadway play than the kind of phantom that hangs out in operas. But a phantom nonetheless.

4. He makes it really hard for you to sleep over. He never straight-up says you have to leave (That wouldn't get him a next hookup!) but he always has a "thing" really early the next morning. A "thing with friends" or "a work thing" or "some family thing." You know families don't have picnics at 5 a.m. though.
5. He always hands you everything before you leave. Did you forget your bra? Some lipstick? Your purse? A single bobby pin? If you never forget anything there, you can never have an excuse to show up when he doesn't want you to. If you tried to show up unsolicited anyway, you'd probably find the place abandoned and boarded up, and some neighbor would tell you, "Why, that place has been abandoned for years!" like some episode of Are You Afraid of the Dark.
6. You've never been on a real date. Dates are for men who consider themselves boyfriends, not men who consider themselves fuck buddies.
7. He always insists on splitting the cost of the post-coital pizza you ordered. If one of you doesn't pay for the pizza, it can't be considered a date. He will follow #6 if it kills him.
8. He's "busy" whenever you text him about something personal or emotional. Who has time to pause his game of Madden to talk to you about things like how you feel? If your text about your grandma passing away isn't attached to a sexy picture, he won't even bother opening it. Guys who just want you for sex aren't going to spend time playing the boyfriend.
9. He always tries to initiate sex when you hang out. An easy way to tell the difference between guys who like having sex with you a lot and guys who only like having sex with you is this: Think back to a time when the two of you were together but weren't having sex for more than an hour. If you can't do that, he only wants you for sex.
10. The only thing he's ever bought you that could be considered romantic is a vibrating cock ring. He was like, "Hey, I have a surprise for you," and you could hear a faint vibration, and he dropped his pants and honestly expected you to be pumped about it.
11. Every conversation turns flirty/sexual. Every time you talk or text, it immediately turns into a conversation about having sex. He's stopped even trying to be witty about it. "Oh, you're at the grocery store right now? I sure would like to have sex with you … at the grocery store ;-)"
12. He texts you to meet up with a group, but wants to go back to your place/his place as soon as you get there. You might think you're about to meet all of his friends at some bar, but when you get there, he's already waiting outside with his coat and some condoms.

Written by Frank Kobola

7 things you must not say to your husband

One of the best parts about marriage is being so comfortable with your hubby that you can say just about anything to him. But if you don't watch your mouth, sometimes the ugly truth comes out in hurtful—not helpful––ways. Though you may have legitimate concerns to express or issues to bring up, doing so in a harsh manner can be damaging in the long term, to both your husband's feelings and your relationship.


1. "Yes, I had an orgasm." (when you didn't)

Lying is never a great idea, especially when it comes to sexual intimacy.The definition of intimacy is letting another person see your vulnerabilities, and that includes admitting that your sex life might need some S.O.S. When you pretend you're enjoying sex with your husband, you may think that you're sparing his feelings, but you're actually pushing him away by not being honest. And chances are, you aren't fooling him: The very fact that he's asking usually means he suspects that something is up.

 2. "You're just like your father.
This is just a no-no.It's nasty and belittling, and it gets at his fear that he may be exhibiting the worst traits of his family.If you're about to spout a criticism like this, stop and think about what's behind it: Maybe your father-in-law is the kind of guy who never cleans up after himself, and your husband's habit of leaving dirty dishes around the house is getting to you. You should skip the insult and get right to a reasonable request, such as: "Hon, when you're done with your sandwich, can you bring your dish over to the sink?" That way, you can achieve your goals without hurting him in the process.

 3. "When are you going to find a new job?" First, figure out why you want him to find a new job so badly. Do you dislike how much time he spends away from home? Do you think he can or should be further ahead career-wise? Is he not bringing home a healthy-enough salary? Before you say anything that could be hurtful to him, think about what your own issues are,Be particularly careful that you're not attacking his ability to support you and the kids: Part of how a man evaluates himself is by how well he can take care of his family,so insulting him in this sensitive area can be a serious blow. To avoid this, have regular talks about both of your jobs, career ambitions and budget concerns.

 4. "My mother warned me you'd do this!"

Something must have seriously infuriated you, because what you're doing here is letting him know that there are other MEN in your camp.You are trying to validate your 'side' of an argument, as though you're marshalling an army to your side,But that's never a good idea because it's telling him that you're not on his side, or on the side of your relationship. Though you should never let the opinions of others' dictate your relationship, if there is some kernel of truth to a concern that your mother raised, think about how to address that.

 5. "Just leave it––I'll do it myself!

This is hurtful in two ways. First, it gets at your husband's elemental need to be a provider, supporter and capable person in the house. Second, it's just plain demeaning for any adult to hear that his efforts are sub-par. Do this too often and your husband might think, "I can never do anything right or anything that'll please her".A better choice is to pick your battles. If he's in the middle of a task and you think that he's doing it wrong, evaluate whether it really matters, keeping in mind that, just because he's doing something differently than you would doesn't mean that he's doing it wrong—he is, after all, an adult too.

 6. "You always... " or "You never... "

These are two phrases I advise couples never to use,because they set up an instant, negative tone; they halt communication and they put the other person on the defensive.These blanket statements can make your husband feel unfairly attacked, and chances are he'll just fire back with all the times he did help. If there are legitimate problems you'd like to address (he really does tend to leave his tools all over the garage floor or often forgets to put gas in the car after driving it), avoid generalizing and try to focus on the issue at hand while also communicating how his actions make you feel: "When you come home with an empty tank of gas, I feel like you don't care about the next person who has to drive the car—which is usually me." Then add the phrase "would you be willing...,""Would you be willing to fill up the car when it gets below a quarter tank?" Most men are willing to do most anything that'll make you happy

 

 7. "Please watch the kids. But don't do this, take them here or forget that..."

This is a classic nervous-new-mom move: When you're in anxiety mode, it can be hard to let go of childcare tasks (even though you would love to have more help). It's also an attitude that can become a habit no matter how long you've been a mom, leading to some very unhealthy feelings: You may become resentful because he doesn't pitch in, but you don't always give him room to, either. At the end of the day, no husband is going to be inspired to be a better, more hands-on and involved dad if his every effort is shot down.

Written by Denise Schipani

Biafra is a joke

Federal Government of Nigeria's approach on these pro-Nnamdi Kanu agitators is commendable. It has rendered IPOB irrelevant. They have foolishly confined their cause to some restrictred areas thereby further making their call a clannish and selfish cry of people who allowed blind ethnic jingioists influence their political choice at the last elections against the constant warnings of men like Rochas Okorocha and Chris Ngige.
 
I laughed whenever I read reports from Igbo leaders of thoughts begging the FG to take the agitators seriously and I see desperation for recognition. Shortly after the defeat of experienced during the last elections, even before Buhari was sworn into office, some of these elements were the first to cry marginalization and begged for position in the new governments. They will never learn. We warned them not to play the dangerous games of ethno-religious balnakization but they will never learn.

Out of shame, secessionist voices which have been silent during the administration of Jonathan was reactivated and hate speeches were shared even by so-called democrats obviously in act of desperation to arm-twist the government into begging them so they can gain a political high ground, but unfortunately, the new Sheriff in town does not seem to care.
The protest has been confined to the Igbo dominated areas with various surrounding ethnic groups including the Ijaw, Itshekiri etc asking to be excused from the project. Markets were shut down, businesses were forced to close down over their agitation but who is at a lost.
The FG should maintain this posture and I can assure you that the whole cry will die out in few weeks. When they are hungry, they will open their shops and stalls for business. I laughed when IPOB deceived the people that 88 countries backed their agitation, where are the 88 countries now?
When Nigerians stood up to fight during the fuel subsidy protest, these elements frustrated that move because of their blind loyalty and their attitude of cutting their nose to spite their face. Now they are shouting marginalization. Must everything be about them?
If you call for protest against corrupt politicians, against poor roads, against unemployment, these are factors inhibiting progress in Nigeria and definitely we shall join you; but if you call others animals and call my country zoo, then you definitely deserve know pity. Keep your cry to yourself. Wake us up when you have a better cause to fight.

Written by Olu Adegoke

ENOUGH IS ENOUGH:I MUST MARRY

 

For spinsters and bachelors who feel that obtaining the right partner is getting rather late.  The best way to arrest delay in marriage is to engage in constant wrestling bouts with the enemy and to call back all the benefits you would have gained if you had gotten married earlier.  God is waiting for you to fight it out with your enemy.

 No word of God shall lack power of fulfillment!  God's words are always backed by His authority and we know His words cannot return to Him void. We serve a God that cannot lie. His dreams, vision and words concerning our lives will surely come to pass.  God is the one that instituted marriage and He performed the first wedding ceremony in Genesis chapter 2.  God has a man for every woman and if you feel that you have lost God's perfect will for your life, don't forget that for every Vashti there is an Esther.

 Lateness in marriage can come as a result of collective captivity, manipulations of household wickedness, spirit husband/wife and other anti-marriage forces. "In His time God makes all things beautiful" (Ecclesiastes 3:11).  The God that makes all things beautiful, will step into your situation, break down every wall of parti­tion between you and your God-ordained partner (Ephesians 2:14) and gather you together by His Spirit (Isaiah 34:16; Ephesians 2:13). 

CONFESSIONS

 Habakkuk 2:3 says, “For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry.”

 Isaiah 34:16 says, “Seek ye out of the book of the Lord, and read: no one of these shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my mouth it hath commanded, and his spirit it hath gathered them.

 Philip. 2:9-10 says, “Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name: [10] That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth;”

 Col. 2:13 says, “And you, being dead in your sins and the uncircumcision of your flesh, hath he quickened together with him, having forgiven you all trespasses;”

 Rev. 12:11 says, “And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death.”

 Luke 1:37 says, “For with God nothing shall be impossible.”

 

 PRAISE WORSHIP

1.    Thank the Lord because your miracle has come.

2.      Ask the Lord to forgive you any sin that would hinder answers to your prayers.

3.    Lord, make known to me the secrets of my inner life. Help me Lord, to discover my real self.

4.    Help me Lord, to discover my real self.

5.    Let every imagination of the enemy against my marital life be rendered impotent, in the name of Jesus.

6.      I refuse to co-operate with any anti-marriage spells and curses, in the name of Jesus.

7.    I cancel every bewitchment fashioned against my settling down in marriage, in the name of Jesus.

8.      Let every force magnetizing the wrong people to me be paralyzed, in the name of Jesus.

9.    I break every covenant of marital failure and late marriage, in the name of Jesus.

10.  I cancel every spiritual wedding conducted consciously or uncon­sciously on my behalf, in the name of Jesus.

11.  I remove the hand of household wickedness from my marital life, in the name of Jesus.

12.  Let every incantation, incisions, hexes and other spiritually harmful activities working against me, be completely neutralized, in the name of Jesus.

13.    I command all forces of evil manipulating, delaying or hindering marriage to be completely paralyzed, in the name of Jesus.

14.    Let all evil anti-marriage marks be removed, in Jesus' name.

15.    Lord, restore me to the perfect way in which You created me if I ha been altered.

16.    Father, let Your fire destroy every satanic weapon fashioned against my marriage, in the name of Jesus.

17.    Lord, expose all the schemes and plans of satan ever devised again me through any source and at any time.

18.    I forsake any personal sin that has given ground to the enemy, in the name of Jesus.

19.    I reclaim all the ground I have lost to the enemy, in Jesus' name.

20.    I apply the power in the name and blood of Jesus to my marital situation.

21.    I apply the blood of Jesus to remove all consequences of evil operations and oppression, in the name of Jesus.

22.    I break the binding effect of anything of evil ever put upon me from any source, in the name of Jesus.

23.    Let all the enemies of Jesus Christ operating against my life be ex-posed, in the name of Jesus.

24.    I sever myself from any satanic linkage and any strange power, in the name of Jesus.

25.    I remove the right of the enemy to afflict my plan to get married, in the name of Jesus.

26.    I break every bondage of inherited marital confusion, in the name of Jesus.

27.    I bind and plunder the goods of every strongman attached to my mar­riage, in the name of Jesus.

28.  Let the angels of the living God roll away the stone blocking my marital breakthrough in the name of Jesus.

29.  I remove my name from the book of seers of goodness without mani­festation, in the name of Jesus.

30.  Let God arise and let all the enemies of my marital breakthrough be scattered, in the name of Jesus.

31.  Let the fire of God melt away the stones hindering my marital bless­ings, in the mighty name of Jesus.

32.  Let the cloud blocking the sunlight of my glory and breakthrough be dispersed, in the name of Jesus.

33.  Let all evil spirits masquerading to trouble my marital life be bound, in the name of Jesus.

34.  The pregnancy of good things within me will not be aborted by any contrary power, in the name of Jesus.

35.  Lord, let wonderful changes begin to be my lot from this week.

36.  I reject every spirit of the tail in all areas of my life, in Jesus' name.

37.  I receive my right match in the name of Jesus.

38.  I stand against every spirit of discouragement, fear, worry and frustra­tion, in the name of Jesus.

39.  Lord, turn away all that would jilt, disappoint or fail me.

40.  Thank God for the victory.