Forgive,Forget and Move on with your life

 
 When someone you care about hurts you, you can hold on to anger, resentment and thoughts of revenge or embrace forgiveness and move forward.
If you cant forgive,you cannot move forward because you are carrying a serious heavy load on you.Nearly everyone has been hurt by the actions or words of another. Perhaps your mother or father,friends or your colleague sabotaged a project or your partner had an affair. These wounds can leave you with lasting feelings of anger, bitterness or even vengeance.
The question you now need to ask will now be,What will Jesus do?
 Iif you don't practice forgiveness, you might be the one who pays most dearly. By embracing forgiveness, you can also embrace peace, hope, gratitude and joy. Consider how forgiveness can lead you down the path of physical, emotional and spiritual well-being.
  Forgiveness is a decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge. The act that hurt or offended you might always remain a part of your life, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you and help you focus on other, more positive parts of your life. Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you.
Forgiveness doesn't mean that you deny the other person's responsibility for hurting you, and it doesn't minimize or justify the wrong. You can forgive the person without excusing the act. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life.
 Forgiveness can lead to:

• Healthier relationships
• Greater spiritual and psychological well-being
• Less anxiety, stress and hostility
• Lower blood pressure
• Fewer symptoms of depression
• Stronger immune system
• Improved heart health
• Higher self-esteem BUT unforgiveness is the opposite.unfortunately,unforgiveness first starts with hate and when it become so full,leads to witchcraft.

There are four people you must forgive before you can move forward in life:

1.Your parents:
Whether they are living or dead. You must absolutely forgive them for every mistake they ever made in bringing you up. At the very least, you should be grateful to them for giving you life. They got you here. If you are happy to be alive, you can forgive them for everything else. Never complain about them again.If you refuse to forgive your parents,You block your own chance to grow up and become a fully functioning adult. You continue to see yourself as a victim. Even worse, you keep your negative feelings of inferiority and anger alive. If your parents die without your having forgiven them, it can bother you for the rest of your life.

2. Your friends:
The second person or persons you must forgive are the friends from your school,companies, marriages or relationships that didn’t work out. These intimate relationships can be so intense, and so threatening to your feelings of self-esteem and self-worth, that you can be angry and unforgiving toward those people for years.

3. Your enemies:
If you don't forgive your enemies,you cannot move forward.at the cross,Jesus cried out to God to "forgive them because they know not what they do". leave the vengeance to God.

4. Yourself.
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The fourth and final person you have to forgive is yourself. You must absolutely forgive yourself for every silly, senseless, wicked, brainless, thoughtless or cruel thing you have ever done or said. Stop carrying these past mistakes around with you. That was then and this is now.
Think of it this way. When you did those things in the past that you still feel badly about, you were not the person you are today. At that time, you were a different person, younger and less experienced. You were not your true self. You were an immature version of the person you have become with experience. Stop beating yourself up for something that occurred in the past that you cannot change.
Just say, “I forgive myself for every mistake I ever made. I am a thoroughly good person and I am going to have a wonderful future.” Whenever you think of that event or situation, just repeat, “I forgive myself completely.” And then get on with your life. Focus on the future rather than the past and don’t look back. Look at where you are going rather than where you have been.

How to Start a Business: A Step-by-Step Guide

 
Every year, hundreds of thousands of people across the country take a leap of faith and start their own business. This path requires a lot of hard work, and many end up failing. But for those who survive, the rewards of entrepreneurship are well worth the obstacles they face on the road to success.
Think you're ready to start your first business? Here's a step-by-step overview of what you need to do to make it happen.

Brainstorm ideas

Every new business starts with an idea. Maybe there's something you're really knowledgeable and passionate about, or perhaps you think you've found a way to fill a gap in the marketplace. Wherever your interests lie, it's almost guaranteed that there's a way to turn it into a business.

Build a business plan

A business plan helps you figure out where your company is going, how it will overcome any potential difficulties, and what you need to sustain it.What your business is about and how you will accomplish your goals.
    Your extended goals, and how you will fill your market's needs.
    Your research on your target market,Organization and management of your company.
    Your service or product line, including copyright information and R & D activities.Strategies for market penetration and growth.
    Estimated costs and funding request (if you need financial assistance).

Assess your finances

Starting any business has a price, so you need to determine how you're going to cover those costs. Do you have the means to fund your startup, or will you need to borrow money? If you are planning to make your new business your full-time job, it's wise to wait until you have at least some money put away for startup costs and to sustain yourself in the beginning before you start making a profit.

Determine your legal business structure

Before you can register your company, you need to decide what kind of entity it is. Your business structure legally affects everything from how you file your taxes to your personal liability if something goes wrong.If you own the business entirely by yourself and plan to be responsible for all debts and obligations, you can register for a sole proprietorship. A partnership, as its name implies, means that two or more people are held liable as business owners.

Register with the government and IRS

To become an officially recognized business entity, you must register with the government. If you are registering as a corporation, you'll need an articles of incorporation document, which includes your name, business purpose, corporate structure, stock details and other information about your company. Otherwise, you will just need to register your business name, which can be your legal name or a fictitious "Doing Business As" name (if you are the sole proprietor) or the name you've come up with for your company. You may also want to take steps to trademark your business name for extra legal protection.

Build your team

Unless you're planning to be the sole proprietor and employee of your business, you're going to need to hire a great team to get your company off the ground. Joe Zawadzki, CEO and founder of MediaMath, said entrepreneurs need to focus on the "people" element of their business with the same attention they give their product.

Brand yourself and advertise

A great startup idea won't do you any good if people don't know about it. While there's still a lot of value in word-of-mouth advertising, you're going to need to do more than just tell your social circles that you're starting a business. Before you start selling your product or service, you need to build up your brand and get a following of people ready to jump when you open your literal or figurative doors for business.A company website and social media profiles are practically essential for any small business in today's world. Create a logo that can help people easily identify your brand and be consistent in using it across all of your platforms. Use social media to spread the word about your new company.

WHY PREMARITAL SEX IS GOOD?

 

It is really annoying when someone,,tribe or religious groups come out and say premarital sex is a sin,it is absolute rubbish.seriously,is premarital sex a sin?
Premarital sex is a morally good thing. It's time we stopped seeing it as something wrong and started seeing it as something that, for most of us, is totally right. 
 Fact Is that having sex once a week is the happiness,but seriously,is that a lie or the truth?Doesn't Sex Produce Intimacy? For God sake,Sex is healthy and natural.
 We’re not saying everyone should have premarital sex. Those who think they should wait until they get married should continue to wait.All we are saying is that our society needs to be a lot more accepting about it.
 Nigeria is a grossly sex starved nation and Africa is grossly sex-starved continent.Nigeria is not like America who have rights to do what they like.Sex is believed to be exclusive to married people,that is sad. A lot of men see marriage as a license to have sex.People are getting married only so they can have guilt-free sex and sincerely from my heart,We’re humans and it’s a basic instinct to want to have sex. It’s healthy and perfectly normal but again,the question still rises, is premarital sex a sin?
Is love not sex?
If i really love the person,sex should be the best way to cement our love?
Is sex not blood covenant between the two people involved? 
 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whore mongers and adulterers God will judge. Hebrew 13:4;
 This is the generation that accept lies and this lies is gaining more prominence; people, society, culture and civilization are making frantic attempt to rationalize and create excuses for premarital sex, but, it does not matter what people seem to have generally accepted, the position of the Almighty God can never change.There is nothing sinful about sex if it takes place between couples within the confinements of marriage, but according to the scriptures, God’s wrath looms over everyone who engages in sex outside of marriage unless he or she repents immediately and quit.
Another danger of sex before marriage is that it opens an avenue for distrust and suspicion in the marriage union. Apart from the loss of dignity, honour and self respect the couples would have enjoyed with themselves if they had kept their bodies pure, the chance of suspicion in their marriage will be very high. It may be difficult for those who slept with each other during courtship to trust each other when eventually married. 
 Your testimony as a child of God is not what you can toy with. You cannot afford to trade off your future and destiny on the altar of premarital sex. The price could be greater than you can afford to pay!

Ezekiel Olubadejo

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MAKE MONEY AS A STUDENT

 

Going to university is a very costly thing and studying as a student at the university is a costly everyday business,and with rising tuition fees, many people can feel priced out of this opportunity. However, school students shouldn’t dismiss the idea of entering higher education just because of its costs. Not only are there several bursaries and loans you can take out these days to cover the expenses not taken care of by student loans, but there are also a number of ways you can earn money while at school.

 Here are just a few ideas on how you can raise some cash so you can really enjoy your university experience.

1. Seek part time work in the area surrounding the university.

 One of your first options to make money in the area surrounding university is a part-time job. Most universities are located in areas that abound with retail stores, and therefore, retail jobs. There is also the option of a local pub or restaurant. This may require you to be a little more flexible with your schedule, but is a steady source of income.

2.  Be a teacher or instructor and earn money while you study.

 Try putting your brains to use. Since you are already getting a top notch education, use this to generate some income. Try advertising tutoring services in your major or area of expertise. This may help you double up by earning money and getting some additional reinforcement on your studies. However, it could require some travel to reach students

3.  Make the most of your skills.

 If you’re have a particular skill, be it singing, playing a music instrument or you are especially good at a subject, you’re very lucky indeed. Not only can you carry this talent with you for the rest of your life, but you can also ‘sell your skill’ by teaching it to others.

 4. Work from home as a great option for a tight schedule.

 If you feel you are technologically savvy or have limited transportation options, working remotely might be a great opportunity for you. This allows you to work from home and is a very flexible work environment because you manage your own time. The downside is that finding work depends on your skills and qualifications, and you must be wary of scams.

5. Hosting events. 

Bring all your class mates along to a particular club, get paid, and get free drinks all night. Only requirement is that you get people in. 

6.  Become a sports coach or referee.

 Finally, if you’re interested in sports, why not become a sports coach or referee for a youth league? if you have some experience in any sport, you can ref more prestigious games and get paid more. To give this one a try, contact your local league in the state or your school sport leagues as early as possible; chances are you will need training and certification.