Friday, 28 April 2017

10 ways to financially prepare for marriage

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Families and couples need to consider financial preparation for a wedding well ahead of time. Financial planning begins with the type of marriage that the bride and groom have in mind. But the keys to this are savings, sticking to priorities and not veering from the set budget.
Let’s see how budgets are generally set traditionally in families.10 WAYS TO FINANCIALLY 

PREPARE FOR MARRIAGE
Intricate plans are made relating to all aspects of the wedding – the jewels, clothing, venue, wedding feasts and other rituals. In most communities responsibilities specific to the bride and groom are tradition and the nuances are discussed and agreed upon. At this juncture it is important to set budgets without considering loans of any sort. This is indeed difficult since at no other time is the temptation to overspend more compelling.
Here are some simple ways to avoid budget overruns:

Prune the Guest List
Limit the invitees to close relatives and friends. In cases where budget is a constraint avoiding a long invitee list can make a big difference.

Venue for the Reception
An equally big hall, a little away from the heart of the city could cost a lot less than some of the popular reception centers.

Décor
Banquet chairs and tables, arrays of lights, grand flower decorations and live bands can cost a lot. Tone down a little on all this and you could save a lot.

Menu
The wedding lunch/dinner is one of the big-ticket items in any wedding. Resist the temptation to host eight and ten course meals.

Date and Time
There are certain times of the year when wedding related items cost considerably less. Choose the time that suits you.

However in spite of all your efforts if a cost overrun is unavoidable there are ways of bridging the financial gap.

Borrowing from Friends and Relatives
t is not uncommon for families to turn to friends and relatives for short term loans to help them tide over any budget setback during the wedding of their offspring. Since this “give and take” is mutual, you should not normally have difficulty getting such loans.

Personal Loan from Banks
Getting a personal loan from a bank is simple. The amount of these loans will depend on your repayment capacity. Such loans are required to be repaid in three to five years.

Making Purchases on Credit Cards
This is one way of bridging the budget gap. You could use credit cards for clothing, paying hotel bills etc. You can convert larger transactions into smart EMIs without paying much interest.

Mortgage Loan
You could take a loan on an immovable property at rates lesser than personal loans.

Utilizing the Engagement Period

Another way of bridging budget gaps is to save during the engagement period.

Written By Lanre Akinola

TOP 8 BRIDAL SHOPS IN LAGOS, NIGERIA

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When it comes to anything BRIDAL, ladies usually see it as a time to hunt for wedding gown. But, reality is; there are a lot of things to be considered to get a total package of which wedding gown is just one of them.

The under listed bridal shops will see to your needs and make sure your day is a special one. They will infuse such confidence in you such that you will feel like the prettiest lady on Earth.

Depending on your budget, style, colour, or general needs, these shops will make sure you get the best without breaking the bank.

LaViva Bridal Concepts: They offer a wide collection of exquisite and trendy wedding gowns and accessories. Gorgeous, stunning dresses that create wow! effects and they’ve got you covered 24/7 with their online support and help centre.
Their address is at 5 Osho street,Opebi-Oregun link road Opebi, Lagos.

Phone: 08023276770

Time: Mon-Sat  09:00 a.m.           06:00 p.m.
 Website: www.lavivabridals.com

 2.  BRIDALS AND MORE: They offer sales of wedding gown and accessories.

Location:  Beside Thermocool, 83 Allen Avenue,Ikeja ·

Phone: 0803 614 6000

Website: http://bridesnmore.com/

3.MABERLEY GREEN: They deal in exquisite wedding gown and bridal accessories.
They are located at Budland Street, Off the Grammar School Bus Stop, Ojodu Berger, Lagos, Nigeria

    Phone: +234 809 873 4499

4 HADASSAH BRIDALS: Your search for wedding gowns and accessories, bridal shoes, beautiful wedding rings, Bridesmaids dresses stops here because Hadassah Bridals provides you with a one stop store for all of these items. Hadassah Bridals is redefining online shopping for wedding gowns and accessories in Nigeria.
They are located at Shop 33, Mota Shopping Complex 35 Opposite Harmony Estate, Alhaji Azeez Cl, Ifako Gbagada, Lagos
They are on facebook and twitter:

Facebook: Hadassah Bridals
Twitter: @hadassahbridals

Phone: +234 818 890 5399
+234 811 159 1125
Website: www.hadassahbridals.com.ng/

5  BELLISSIMO CONCEPTS: They are one stop shop for all your engagement wears, for both bride and groom. They also make Aso-Oke to complement your Aso-Ebi and complete Aso-Oke for the Groom and Bride’s Parents.
They are situated at Suite 40(Last floor) 75A Iju road Agege pen cinema, Lagos, Agege pen cinema, Nigeria

Phone: +234 805 411 4519

6. AZARAI JEWELERS: They deal in all kinds of ring, from proposal to engagement and to wedding rings. You can get wedding rings ranging from diamond to gold and their rings are pocket friendly. They work base on your budget.
They are located at Pentagon Plaza, 23 Opebi Road, Ikeja and 4 Idowu Martins, VI

Phone:  08066558014 or 08091423229
Website: https://www.azarai.com/

7. DELPHI METALS: Delphi Metals is a wholesale and online retail jewelry company that specializes in Tungsten, Sterling Silver, Titanium and Pure Gold. They offer a wide range of quality products.
They are located at First Floor, E-Centre (Ozone Cinemas) Sabo Yaba. Lagos

Phone: 08187988766 or 09090000841-2

8. BRIDAL HOUSE: they specialize in everything bridal; from wedding gown and accessories, cakes, souvenirs, invitation cards to programmes.
They are situated at 54, Opebi Road, Ikeja, Lagos


Phone: 0803 302 8812

HOW TO CORRECT YOUR WIFE WITHOUT HURTING HER

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How most husbands correct their wives in marriage has done more harm than good in their relationship with their wives.
Many of them speak harshly on top of their voice which make their wives harbor anger and bitterness against them.

This piece will open your eyes to the right way of correcting your wife without hurting her.
1) Don’t Shout On Her: Don’t shout on her, she is not your house maid, she is not a Child. You can correct, yes, but why shouting?
2) Correct In Love: Correcting should be done in love, if done in any other way it turns to criticism and condemnation
3) Avoid Criticisms: Stop criticizing her, rather correct in love. Most will say it’s constructive criticism, true? It means disapproval by pointing out errors and mistakes.
Correction is the act of offering better options to mistakes.
Correction and criticism are never the same.
Husband A says: what manner of food is this? is this pop corn or fried Rice? how I wish I marry a more sensible wife, with better home training, who can cook better
Husband B says: Sweet heart this rice is too salty and dry unlike the one you did yesterday. I think salt should be reduced any other time because of our health.
Husband A criticized, Husband B, corrected his wife in love. Stop criticizing your wife.
4) Appreciate Her When She Is Right: It will be wrong to correct when it’s not well done, when you don’t praise when it’s well done. Form the habit of praising and appreciating your wife for good deeds.
5) Avoid Correcting Her In The Presence Of Your Children: Incessant correction of your wife before your Children will make them to disrespect her.
6) Avoid Correcting Her In The Public: Avoid correcting your wife in the public, it does not show you as a gentle man, and will affect her self-esteem.
7) Don’t Correct Her While You Are Angry: Stop correcting your wife in anger, shouting, ranting, beating and making trouble. Real men don’t do that.
8) Avoid Comparison: In your thought of correcting her, you might have been comparing her with other women. “Don’t you see what your friend is doing?”
“Can’t you learn from our neighbors wife?”
“I think you should borrow a leaf from deaconess so and so”
This is very wrong, no woman love to be compared with others, stop it.
9) Don’t Refer To Old Issues: Avoid referring to issues discussed and settled,stick to the present issue,discuss like adults and move on.
10) Avoid Attacking Her Womanhood: And you call yourself a woman? Virtuous women don’t behave like this, you better change before I change you.
This is very wrong, don’t do it.
11) Avoid Attacking Her Dignity: You don’t behave like someone with sense, do you think at all? And you said you went to school, I doubt it. This is very wrong, you too, you are not talking like somebody that pass through a college.
12) Correct Her In Time Of Peace: Most husband do want to correct in the heat of anger, at the height of misunderstanding, when temper has already hit the roof. That is not the best time to correct, it will yield little or no result.

13) Help In Doing House chores: The best way to correct is to lead by example, step into the kitchen to give a helping hand, don’t just sit in the front of the Television correcting what goes on in the kitchen. Wives are doing great job, appreciate yours and support her to be a better wife and mother.


Written by Bisi Adewale
 Pastor Bisi Adewale is a family and relationship expert; author of Secret of Irresistible Wife and more than 60 other books on marriage and family life. You can reach him on facebook.com/PastorBisiAdewale , 08068312004, 08051512823

German airlines to scrap 'two-person' cockpit rule

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German airlines will no longer require two people to be in the cockpit at all times, an industry group said Friday, abandoning a rule introduced after a deadly crash in 2015.
"An evaluation has shown that the two-person rule does not increase security, rather other risks to air security arise," the statement from the German Aviation Association (BDL) said.
The requirement to have two people in the cockpit at all times was introduced after Germanwings copilot Andreas Lubitz deliberately flew a passenger plane into a French mountainside, killing 144 passengers and six crew in March 2015.
Black box recordings showed that Lubitz, who had been treated for mental health problems in the months before the disaster, locked himself into the cockpit alone.
The BDL's decision follows an easing of the two-person rule at the EU level by the European Aviation Safety Agency (EASA) in August last year.
Instead of a blanket requirement, the EASA recommended using the measure only on a case-by-case basis.
The BDL argued that allowing more people access to the cockpit and opening the door more often and more obviously would raise the risk of terrorists or criminals forcing their way in.
"Security dangers resulting from an outside attack... must continue to be judged much more elevated than the danger from a so-called homicide/suicide case," the group said.
It cited a historical survey showing that while there have been 1,074 hijacking cases between 1931 and today, only four cases of pilot suicide have been recorded.
Keeping cabin crew in the cockpit whenever one pilot was absent would also leave them unable to help passengers in case of an emergency, the statement said.

To minimise the risk of a repeat tragedy, the airlines said they would step up mental health checks on pilots and offer aircrew access to psychological support.

Source:www.phys.org

Jubilee tribunal receives 93 appeals, to deliver rulings Saturday

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Kenya’s Jubilee's party tribunal is set to deliver its ruling on disputed party primaries across the country on Saturday.
On Friday morning, the tribunal had received 93 appeals for all position contested.

"We have started full hearing of the appeals. So far we have not delivered any ruling on the same but the earliest we anticipate is Saturday afternoon," tribunal vice chair Hillary Sigei told the Star on phone.
Sigei said the tribunal will interrogate all issues raised in the appeals before issuing the judgement.

"We have to collect and verify all the raw data from our field returning officers and further listen to version of all parties in each appeal," he said.

Sigei maintained that the tribunal will only consider appeals that are formally lodged after complainants fill a form and pays Sh1,000.

China Sentences Human Rights Lawyer

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One of China's best-known human rights lawyers has been given a three-year suspended jail term for subverting state power.
Li Heping was sentenced in a closed-door trial, Chinese state media say.
He has defended other prominent lawyers, including Chen Guangcheng and Gao Zhisheng, as well as practitioners of the banned Falun Gong movement.
A representative of campaign group Amnesty International questioned the validity of the allegations against Li.
The lawyer was detained in 2015 as part of a wider government crackdown on dissent under President Xi Jinping.

His trial took place in the Tianjin City Number Two Intermediate People's Court and concerned state secrets, the court said on its Weibo social media account.

Comedy Festival Naija;Live in Lagos

G7 Productions...Present...COMEDY FESTIVAL NAIJA - The Genesis...Live @ The Ben-Auto Event Place, Akowonjo Roundabout, Akowonjo, Egbeda Road.


Featuring Comedians like: Firstborn, Cee Y, Bash, Dee 1, Jim Boi, Prince Krazy, Mide Coker, Open Teeth, Buchi, SLK, Mr-Talk, Xtreme, Pashon, Ernest Apari, and lot more.

Also Featuring Music Artists like: Purity Vibes, Dubem, and others.
Date: 29th of April, 2017
Time: 4PM
 Venue: BEN AUTO EVENTS, Akowonjo Roundabout Beside FCMB Egbeda Akowonjo Road Lagos
Ticket Categories: Regular = N2,000      VIP = N5,000     Table = N200,000

Note: A Plot of Land & A Return Ticket to South Africa to be Won