It’s every girl’s dream to one day
get married to that man that would make her happy and make her life better.
Believe it or not, marriage is a big issue when it comes to a girl's life, no
matter how successful she is or how indifferent she seems to a marriage, she
wants it bad. The society, the church and even families have actually not made
it any better. So ladies of a certain age begin to worry and become anxious
about wearing a ring and walking the aisle in a white dress but in the process
due to poor judgement and not hearing from God, some ladies have jumped into
marriages that has brought about their downfall. For the single ladies, here is
a list of men though you met them in church or at a charity event or at the
hospital waiting on sick and deformed children or that glorious place where
only good guys go to , albeit well spoken and wealthy that you should never say
I DO to.
1.SMOOTH OPERATOR/PLAYER:
The smooth operator.
This brother thinks he is God’s gift to women, he is calculating, well spoken and tactical. He goes about proposing to ladies and convincing them, it is a special mystical attraction, something beautiful , beyond you and I, and for the very spiritual ladies ,it is the will of God, only to go back on his word when he sees another lady he believes is better than the last one. He has a sugar coated tongue and can talk himself out of any situation. "It is you not me," " i just need sometime along to get myself together", " i don't think, i am good enough for you", Most times he even extorts money from the ladies , promising to give it back because his check has been delayed, his clients has not paid, his dog died or in the name of God’s will. From such, run.
The smooth operator.
This brother thinks he is God’s gift to women, he is calculating, well spoken and tactical. He goes about proposing to ladies and convincing them, it is a special mystical attraction, something beautiful , beyond you and I, and for the very spiritual ladies ,it is the will of God, only to go back on his word when he sees another lady he believes is better than the last one. He has a sugar coated tongue and can talk himself out of any situation. "It is you not me," " i just need sometime along to get myself together", " i don't think, i am good enough for you", Most times he even extorts money from the ladies , promising to give it back because his check has been delayed, his clients has not paid, his dog died or in the name of God’s will. From such, run.
2.THE PERVERT:
2nd Timothy 3:6
“They are the kind who warm their way into homes and gain control over gullible women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires”
2nd Timothy 3:6
“They are the kind who warm their way into homes and gain control over gullible women, who are loaded down with sins and are swayed by all kinds of evil desires”
He believes sex is a recreation, and
so pays no mind to how many partners he has had, would ask for sex before
marriage and has no plans to buy a ring but prefers a live in lover and would
simply claim it is a test of compatibility. Most of his friends are just like
him, they would gather after work and talk about their many victorious
conquests and if he eventually decides to marry , getting married to this
brother would lead you down the path of heartbreak, misery, sin and disease.
3. MUMMY’S BOY:
This brother is in most cases a carbon copy of his mother and is tied to her wrapper. All decisions have to be made by his mother, mummy said this, mummy said that, he would constantly compare you to his mother. You would soon discover that you are married to his mother. why you should also never get married to a man who has no regard for his mother, don’t put yourself in the bondage of having a mother in law influenced marriage.
This brother is in most cases a carbon copy of his mother and is tied to her wrapper. All decisions have to be made by his mother, mummy said this, mummy said that, he would constantly compare you to his mother. You would soon discover that you are married to his mother. why you should also never get married to a man who has no regard for his mother, don’t put yourself in the bondage of having a mother in law influenced marriage.
4.THE WORKAHOLIC:
This brother is always chasing money at the expense of having good relationship with even his family members, in some cases he may be a nice man, but his priority is first any thing that brings money even at the expense of having a good relationship with anyone even God, you would constantly feel alone in that marriage and you would have the sole responsibility of raising your kids. He would give you money but money we know is not everything.
This brother is always chasing money at the expense of having good relationship with even his family members, in some cases he may be a nice man, but his priority is first any thing that brings money even at the expense of having a good relationship with anyone even God, you would constantly feel alone in that marriage and you would have the sole responsibility of raising your kids. He would give you money but money we know is not everything.
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