A Lady sent me a story of what happened to her so she wants advice of what to do.i read her story and im shocked.For security reasons,her name will not be mentioned on this platform .
I fell in love with Dotun during my university days at The University
of Lagos. We met at a campus fellowship organized by one of the school
fellowships in Unilag and quickly, we became inseparable, because Dotun was tall,
muscular and sexy. we never had sex,but I knew he was the will of God for me,
but now,im very wrong, he is not the will of God for me, and I think I have made my greatest mistake, but I thought I
knew what it meant for me to be loved: He would be my real, only true love. I
love my husband, but when I am getting to realize who he is now, im afraid of
those words we got married at the church (for better for worse). I am a married
lady in my late 20s.i got married to my husband 5 years ago, and it has been wonderful.
We have two Kids, and about 5 months ago Dotun was behaving odd. We make love
all the time, sometimes sex but all of a sudden, the worst started to happen. Every
day, my husband will come home very late and this is not helping our relationship.Suddenly,
he started bringing some of his friends that I don’t know, and its not normal
for me to see men who behave like women in our house. Sometimes I feel
embarrassed when I get back home from work to see this same girlish man in the kitchen cooking for my husband,
it is irritating because I am his wife,
and I am the only one to cook for him. i have not had sex at all for five
months now, and its still killing me, but that is not what bothers me..What
bothers me is that he likes to watch gay shows in his laptop with this girlish
man. Sometimes i catch him on the Internet in gay chat rooms but I never say a
word about it. But last month was the straw that broke the camel’s back,A very
good friend of ours came out to us last month,And during our discussions I
mentioned that I have problems with my husband,and I told him what has been
happening,and he said my husband is gay.i never believed it because I love my
husband,and I wouldn’t want to end my marriage because of my children.
Now,the worst has happened,my husband came home with this
girlish man,only for him to tell me that he is sorry that he will broke my
heart.
Dotun confessed to me that he is gay and that effeminate man that
comes to our house is his boyfriend, but I still never believed it until I came
back from fellowship only for me to enter our matrimonial bed and see my own
husband,Dotun to be having sex with this man.Dotun was actually penetrating the
anus of this man from the back,and when they saw me,they stopped.
I am confused and am disappointed.Hell has broken loose upon
me and my marriage.i don’t know what to do.
Should I end this marriage or I should file for a divorce?i
need help seriously
No comments:
Post a Comment