As you look for Mr. Right, you try to look past some of bad traits so you can see all the good ones. This is good. It shows that you're not shallow. But, despite how shallow it might seem, there are some guys you should just leave in the dating pool.I believe you have to share this article with your friends on facebook or twitter because this article will help you.
Here are 7 men you must not marry:
The mummy's boy
- You've heard that how a man treats his
mother is how he'll treat you. So you look for a guy who is close to his
mom and spends a lot of time with her. But be careful, if he's too
close you'll find yourself married to his mother, too. So you better get
used to hearing, "My mom doesn't do it that way." And you better get
used to his mother being your marriage counselor, too.
The pushover
- As mentioned before, everybody likes to
have their own way. So when you find a guy who lets you do whatever you
want and doesn't complain about it, you want to grab him up. But after a
while you'll find yourself making all the decisions. And then you'll
find yourself complaining because he doesn't pull his own weight.
The fitness freak
Who doesn't want a guy with chiseled abs and nice arms? But despite all his good (physical) traits you may soon find that the gym is taking up an exorbitant amount of time in your family's life. And you'll find yourself using phrases like "did you beat your PR today, honey?" But more importantly, a man who lets the gym run his life has let the servant become the master and you'll soon find that he has other priorities out of whack, too.
The I-know-more-than-you guy
- It's a good thing to marry a
person for his brains. But be careful because you might end up marrying a
know-it-all. And you'll always feel like you're wrong — even if it's
just an opinion.
The control freak
- Everybody likes to have things their
own way. Unfortunately, because men are socialized to express hostility
and anger when they don't get what they want, a man who is a control
freak can often become intimidating and even abusive (physically or
mentally).
The narcissist
Narcissus was an ancient Greek mythological figure who was so beautiful that he fell in love with himself — but because he couldn't leave his own reflection in the water, he eventually drowned. A person who is a narcissist is so convinced of their own greatness that they don't see their weaknesses.They are lone rangers,and Marrying a narcissist is a very one sided relationship. They're always trying to vaunt their own greatness — often at the expense of others.
The immoral rebel
A lot of women are attracted to the bad boys or a sexually immoral guy. There's just something mysterious and romantic about him,he is a sex god. But a lot of times the rebel in society is a rebel in marriage. And pretty soon you'll find him rebelling against you, too because he will cheat on you.
Written by Aaron Anderson
Aaron Anderson is a therapist and Director of The Marriage and Family Clinic in Denver, CO. He is a writer, speaker and relationship expert. Checkout his blog for expert information on how to improve your relationship.
- Everybody likes to have things their
own way. Unfortunately, because men are socialized to express hostility
and anger when they don't get what they want, a man who is a control
freak can often become intimidating and even abusive (physically or
mentally).
- It's a good thing to marry a
person for his brains. But be careful because you might end up marrying a
know-it-all. And you'll always feel like you're wrong — even if it's
just an opinion.
- As mentioned before, everybody likes to
have their own way. So when you find a guy who lets you do whatever you
want and doesn't complain about it, you want to grab him up. But after a
while you'll find yourself making all the decisions. And then you'll
find yourself complaining because he doesn't pull his own weight.
No comments:
Post a Comment