Sometimes, especially when talking to
those we deem smarter than ourselves, we long for a heightened level of
intelligence in order to contribute more meaningfully to the
conversation.
While some may be content to use their
existing knowledge and hope for the best, others may wish to take things
a step further and try to sound smarter than they are.
To convince people you’re smarter than
you really are, you’ll want to ensure you come across as if you know
what you’re talking about.
Furthermore, the way you carry yourself and express your opinions are also an important factor when attempting to sound smarter.
To begin with, confidence is key. If you
look and act as if you know exactly what you’re talking about, you’ll
likely be perceived as so. To do this, try avoiding blank, filler words
such as ‘um’. It’s perfectly acceptable to pause if you’re not sure how
to proceed.
Talk slowly, remain calm and think
before you speak. Before you know it, you’ll have everyone believing
you’re the smartest person in the room.
Another technique is to emphasize the
facts you already know. Over exaggerate the information you have,
placing more importance on each fact than it may really deserve. Your
enthusiasm will get the conversation moving and you may find you’re able
to learn from other peoples’ contributions.
To end the conversation, make sure you
slot in a meaningful last word. Getting the final word means your
comments will remain fresh in the minds of your peers. If you reiterate
your ideas to sum up, they’ll remember the facts, making you sound like
you know just what you’re talking about.
There are a range of different ways to
enhance your speaking manner in order to sound like the real deal. Some
suggestions may be more effective than others, but there’s a way for
every pseudo intellectual to jump on board the smarter bandwagon.
Pick Up a Few Foreign Phrases
People who speak several languages are,
of course, known for being rather intelligent, however you don’t need to
be fluent in order to reap the benefits and attention given to skilled
polyglots.
Learning a few simple phrases, even from
a vacation guidebook, in a number of different language will help you
come across as smarter and more cultured than your peers.
Just don’t try it on anyone who speaks
more of the language than you do, as your cover will quickly be blown!
To avoid this, try learning phrases in an obscure language. Many people
speak a good amount of Spanish, French or German, yet you’re not as
likely to meet someone fluent in Khoisan – a language still spoken today
in remote areas of Central Africa, despite it being one of the oldest
language on the continent.
Okay, so you picked up that intriguing new fact from a fictional TV show, but your friends don’t have to know that!
By choosing not to tell them where you
picked up each nugget of information, you may be able to fool them into
thinking you spend your time researching topics in depth.
Read Book Reviews
This one may be cheating a little bit,
but it could certainly help if you find yourself at a dinner party with a
number of intellectual guests.
By reading book reviews online, you’ll
not only get the gist of the story, but also be able to ‘borrow’
someone’s opinion, which you’ll be able to repeat if you’re ever asked
what you think of the book or author.
Drop some Names
Dropping the name of a famous author or
philosopher is an obvious, yet surprisingly convincing way to show off
your knowledge, especially if you have a basic grasp of his or her work
and why they’re so influential and worthy of your respect. Similarly,
you may wish to memorize a few thought provoking quotes from famous
figures in history.
Answer each Question with a Question
You may remember this technique from
your time at school or college. Teachers often use it to encourage
students to form their own conclusions and opinions.
While it may look like you’re trying to
plunge deeper into the conversation, it’s also a great way to cover
yourself if you really have no idea what the answer to a question is.
Finally, you may come across more
intelligent by broadening your vocabulary. You may not sound as smart if
you’re constantly re-using words such as ‘like’ in every sentence.
The Huffington Post conducted a survey
through their Facebook page, asking fans to suggest words that they
thought sounded smart.
The results were varied, leaving the following as the ‘smartest’ words to add to one’s vocabulary.
Paradoxically (Def: a statement or
situation that may be true but seems impossible or difficult to
understand because it contains two opposite facts or characteristics)
Oxymoron (Def: a phrase or statement that seems to say two opposite things, as in “jumbo shrimp” and “agree to disagree”)
Ennui (Def: a feeling of being bored and mentally tired caused by having nothing interesting or exciting to do)
Beleaguered (Def: having so many difficulties that you feel as if you are being attacked from every direction)
Exacerbate (Def: to make something that is already bad worse)
Didactic (Def: intended to teach, or to improve morals by teaching)
Anathema (Def: something that is considered completely wrong and offensive)
Logistics (Def: the careful organization
of a complicated military, business, or other activity so that it
happens in successful and effective way)
Quixotic (Def: having intentions or ideas that are admirable but not practical)
Non Sequitur (Def: a statement that does not relate in a clear, reasonable way to the previous statement)
Verisimilitude (Def: the quality of appearing realistic or true)
The running theme throughout these
suggestions seems to be that they are, for the most part, fairly long
words that are not commonly used in everyday conversation. This means
that when they are suddenly dropped into a conversation, they may take
the listener by surprise and ensure the speaker looks and sounds smart
due to their wide vocabulary. Overall, it’s obvious there are a number
of techniques you could use to make yourself sound smarter. All it takes
is a quick search online and a little extra research, and you’ll be
sure to be stating facts like a pro before you know it.
Source: Psychologium
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