Girls get chucked day after day, a girl gets chucked by 3 boyfriends in a row, her heart gets broken, she starts developing and believing the myths that “All boys are the same” “all men are dogs” “all men are heart-breakers” wait, before you believe this, ask yourself why you?
Men are different but it’s you who is not changing and unless you change yourself, wait to find all men similar and getting chucked every time. Here are the reasons why a girl gets dumped.
1. Opening your legs easily for him.
A guy always has a mind that when a girl easily opens her legs for him, there is always a possibility that she also does that to some other guys. This is the major reason as to why some guys dump girls. As a girl have that resistant heart in you.
2. Hanging out with other guys.
Guys always have a tenancy of saying that girls who frequently hang out with other guys cheat on them. Besides that, most guys like me are jealousy, they hate seeing their girl friends hanging with other guys. This tendency of saying that “we are just friends” “we are just workmates” my dear let it stop now or else tomorrow you are dumped.
3. Lack of care.
Many guys want you (girls) at that time they are in need of you. But that tendency of saying “am busy, busy” makes their minds think in otherwise. So girls watch out on this!
4. Over asking for money. You know many guys don’t have good jobs and even when they have good jobs,they dont like their women asking for money almost everyday. Now just imagine one of those guys and your ever asking him for money so often. Tell me what can happen if not dumping you? Learn to be independent, let him give you money voluntarily otherwise you will become a burden to him.
5. Lack of self respect.
Some girls here still behalf in a childish way. They don’t respect themselves even when they are in public. Your boy friend is always and ever getting ashamed of your behaviors. Even if it’s me, I just let go of you
6. Being too dull.
Girls, though some of u are naturally dull but please at least try your level best. Your boyfriends are the ones who always think for you. Just imagine such a scenario why should he burden himself taking you be his lifetime wife? Men know that a wise woman is a chief resource in a family. Guys are now looking for sharp ladies because they always believes that those girls are always developmental.
7. Dirtiness. Now you girls, if can’t even iron clothes you put on, your armpits are ever smelling, you put on clothes two or three times before washing, you are that kind of a girl who is ever having that dirty laundry in your room; you also ask yourself why should he keep you?
8. Extravagance. You are that girl with no budget skills in her head, you like spending, give away things he bought money to your friends easily, look for expensive things only, hardly think about tomorrow, then expect being dumped.
Written by Dr Elizabeth Adeomola
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