It’s not news that men will do a lot to please women they are interested in.Most
men act childish when they are really in love and this has cost them a
great deal. It is not bad to please a woman but over doing it makes one
stupid. As a man, you must be smart enough to read in between the lines
to know what’s favorable and what’s not.We are not saying you
shouldn’t be romantic, it is a good thing to be romantic but not to the
detriment of yourself and you should know that, just because something
might be done in the name of love does not make it the right thing to do
and these are the few you should try as much as possible to avoid or
never be tempted to do for a woman, regardless.
1. Steal For Her
Obviously, we all know
where this will end you and by the time you will be back, someone might
have taken your place. Never allow anything to push you to steal in
order to please your woman because if she later finds out you actually
stole a gift for her, she might drop you, unless of course, you are in
it together like Bonny and Clyde.
2. Pay For Her Education
It is not a bad
thing to support her education, if you can help but to take full
responsibility for everything to your own detriment can be dangerous. We
are all humans and we change from time to time, most men actually think
funding a girl’s education means they’ll be forever indebted to them,
ending up getting married to them but we’ve seen several scenarios where
the women will end up finding love elsewhere. This has been suicidal to
many men.
3. Buy Her A House When You Don’t Have One
Common
sense should tell you, you should build your dreams together but not
favor her and think of yours later. Building a house for a woman when
you don’t have one yourself can make you is wrong in every way. When she
finally jilts you and lives in it with another man. There are many men
still biting their fingers over this.
4. Fight Another Man Because Of Her
Fighting
because of her doesn’t prove anything. Two things are likely to happen,
either the person beats you to a pulp and end up in the hospital or you
will beat the person and end up in jail, either way, you don’t win.
Unless it is for self-defense.
5. Reject Your Family Because Of Her
A
family is everything and no matter what, you can’t reject them because
your woman doesn’t like them. It will be very dangerous on your part to
reject your family all because of a woman.
6. Change Your Appearance
These days, there
are many men doing a lot, taking pills to make changes to their bodies
all because they feel that’s what women love. Changing you to please a
woman means the moment you stop trying she’ll go, ideally, people you be
with should love you for who you are.
7. Give Up On Your Dreams To Satisfy Her
So
there are many men out there who gave up on their dreams to help their
woman achieve theirs or were discouraged by women. These same women
dumped them afterwards. Never do this after reading this.
8. Being Over-Submissive
It is nice to be
sweet to your woman but always learn to set the records straight and
don’t try to always appear weak to her and succumb to all her wishes in
the interest of pleasing her. Truth is, women actually hate weak men and
will prefer you’re sweet and sour.
9. Starve Yourself For Her
Never forfeit your food for her, at least you can share but to give all to her and go hungry, that’s not love, that’s stupidity.
10. Kill For Her
Never ever even think about
executing such an atrocity for a woman no matter how convincing the
situation is, because if you end up in jail, another man will take your
position.
Written by Kwaku Darko
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