You don’t have to be an expert to figure out that
consistency is pretty essential to successfully change your life, your health,
and your weight. But it’s also pretty clear that building a consistent routine
of regular exercise and healthy eating is not an easy thing to do.
You start off the day with the best intentions—to exercise,
track all your food, and make healthy choices. But then life happens. One of
the kids is sick, the babysitter is late, the snowplow blocked your driveway,
the boss asks you to work overtime, or any one of a hundred other surprises
that can really wreck your day. Before you know it, your plan is in trouble and
your prospects for "sticking to it" aren’t looking very good. In
fact, things are probably going to get worse as the day goes on. By the end of
the day, you have no energy left for exercise, and the task of preparing a
healthy meal feels like a big burden when what you really want is a break.
Something has to give.
More often than not, "what gives" is your plan to
exercise and eat right. When it’s hard to do everything, the things most likely
to go undone are those that don’t affect or involve anyone but you—especially
if those things aren’t exactly your favorite things to do anyway.
So how do you change this pattern? With the three rules for
building consistency.
These three simple rules, when followed faithfully, will
make it easier for you to be consistent with your healthy lifestyle habits—even
on the toughest days.
Rule #1: Never tell yourself “I’m not motivated.”
That’s not the real problem, unless you really don’t want to
lose weight or live a healthy lifestyle. As long as you do want these things,
you have all the motivation you need.
It may be true that sometimes you don’t want to exercise, or
that you really want to stop and get fast food rather than cooking dinner.
That’s understandable, but it doesn’t mean you’re not motivated. It just means
that you want two different and opposing things, and you have to make a
decision. Telling yourself that you lack motivation is just a way of denying
that you really do have a choice. It makes the problem seem mysterious and out
of your control, and it makes you feel less powerful than you really are,
because you lack something (the motivation) you need. Not true!
In the long run you’ll do better if you acknowledge that the
choice is yours to make. You can choose either option, without making excuses
or inventing a theory like “lack of motivation” to justify it. Then, pay
attention to how you feel about the choice you made, and decide whether that is
how you want to feel most of the time.
Being consistent does not mean being perfect. (There are
going to be days when you decide to do something other than stick to your
exercise and diet routine, and that’s fine.) But becoming consistent does mean
giving yourself the power to choose.
Rule #2: Build momentum one step at a time.
It’s never easy to change old habits or start new routines.
Studies show that it takes anywhere from 21 to 40 days to really turn a new
behavior into a persistent habit. And during that time, you’re going to have to
work at it pretty diligently—even when you don’t feel like it.
The key to long term consistency is building momentum. The
hardest part is always getting things started. But once you’re moving, staying
in motion and picking up speed becomes a lot easier. There are a lot of ways
you can gradually build momentum during those first few weeks. Here are some
examples:
Start with
something that’s pretty easy to manage and build up from there. Set a goal of
one 10-minute exercise session per week. Then increase it to two 10-minute
sessions. Gradually add minutes to each workout (and eventually add one or more
additional workouts to your week), until you're exercising as long and as
frequently as you should in order to reach your goals. The simple act of
setting aside some time for exercise every day, no matter how little, and
sticking to it is enough to start building the habit.
Find an
accountability buddy—someone who knows about your plan and is willing to give
you a push when you feel like slacking off.
Join a Team or
Challenge here at SparkPeople. It’s always harder to let someone else down than
it is to let yourself off the hook.
Employ an excuse
buster. Find a friend, family member, or SparkPeople member whose judgment and
opinion you respect. Each time you find yourself thinking about skipping an
exercise session or blowing your meal plan, write down the reason for your
choice. Share this reason with your excuse buster and get her honest opinion
about whether the reason for your choice is reasonable or just an excuse.
You’ll probably find that this makes it a lot harder for you to believe your
own rationalizations.
Rule #3: Always have a plan B.
Because life is unpredictable and complicated, you need to
have plan B ready—even before you actually need it. Plan B is an alternative
way to stay consistent with your goals when your regular routine (or something
else) doesn’t work out as planned. Obviously, you can’t foresee every single
problem that might come up. But most of the time, the things that get in your
way are things that happen fairly often—like kids getting sick, extra hours at
work, or days when you just don’t feel very energetic. Those surprises won't
throw you off track if you plan ahead. For example, have a friend or family
member lined up to stay with your kids so you can make it to the gym; stock
your freezer with some healthy meals when you're short on time; stash your
exercise clothes at the office for a quick workout when you can't get away.
Put a little time into identifying the most common problems
that disrupt your healthy routine, and plan (in advance) what you can do to
handle these problems without sacrificing your diet and exercise routine. Then
all you’ll have to do is put your plan B into action.
Following these three simple rules will help you overcome
some common obstacles while building the momentum you need to stay consistent.
At the very least, you’ll be able to take all those lemons that life hands you,
and make some good (and diet-friendly) lemonade out of them.
Written by Dean Anderson
Dean Anderson is a writer,blogger and a Fitness & Behavior Expert"
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