There was once a time when men used to be real men. When
they dressed with style, when they had a certain honor code they followed that
involved treating not only their elders and each other with respect, but women
alike. Unfortunately, those days are far- gone — a thing of the past. What we
have now is… to be quite honest, I'm not sure.
There are of course certain men out there who still have
their affairs in order, but we are few in number. What people are most often
subject to is the company of boys who are refusing to grow up and man up — boys
who prefer to play with their toys than to do their part in bettering society,
the human race and the world as a whole. These poor excuses for men have the
bodies of adults and the mentalities, as well as the social outlook of
toddlers. Horny toddlers, but toddlers nonetheless.
It's all about character — or in this case, the lack of
character. Something has been happening during this era dubbed the “information
age.” Social media platforms have taken away the need to interact face to face,
taking away the need for actual interaction. This is great in many regards: you
can now keep in touch with friends and family all over the world from a
handheld device.
However, much of the interpersonal confrontations are now
also taking place online. People no longer feel that they have a need to meet
in person to discuss their differences; they can now troll each other online.
People are using the Internet as a shield, hiding behind IP addresses in order
to speak their minds. The Internet acts like beer-muscles. It makes you believe
that you are stronger than you actually are, making you more aggressive. There
is nothing wrong with being aggressive when circumstances require it.
Personally, when my fight or flight response mechanism kicks
in, I always go with fight. It's not by choice; it's just the way that I am
wired. Online, people have no need to run away because they are already in
hiding — so they always choose to “fight.” Although the fighting they do is
just about as significant as the fighting I do when I play Call of Duty.
The same interaction from beneath cover can be seen when we
look at the intercommunication between men and women. It is no secret that both
men and women alike have sexual urges. Men, however, feel the need to get off
more often than most women. So instead of having to spend the time to meet a
real woman and have actual sexual intercourse, they watch porn.
Instead of going out into the real world and meeting women,
they stalk women on Instagram. People now date online as well. It's much easier
to talk to a woman online than it is in person—or rather, it's not that it's
easier. Both are just as easy, but for some reason, men now prefer to hide
their faces behind their monitors. (Every time I use the term 'men' in such
context I quiver) It's out of fear and laziness. Men have become lazy pussies.
I don't even want to use the word pussy because it brings to mind women, who
nowadays have much more character than men.
Generation-Y is the instant gratification generation. We
want what we want right at the moment we figure out that we want it. We are
willingly giving up one of the most important things in life: the waiting
period. Having to wait and having to deal with our urges and wants without
instantly having them satisfied is what builds character and is what we are now
lacking in this fast-paced age.
If we want food, we order it online and have it delivered.
If we want to listen to our favorite song, we find it on YouTube, iTunes or
Spotify. If we want to watch a movie, we either buy it on demand or stream it
online. If we want sex, we masturbate. If we want to have a good time, we do
drugs. We have this false belief that doing things faster will give us a life
more fulfilled — that it will lead to us being happier. But that isn't the
case. Most of us aren't happier. We do more, but we experience less. We are
never in the moment because we are always considering what we will be doing
next in order to not become bored.
Character is most often built during those moments between
activities, during moments of solitude and reflection. Men no longer feel the
need to pause and reflect because the options for whatever it is they want are
only a click away. The options are endless and therefore we never truly
experience disappointment.
We never really feel that we are missing out on something
because we no longer give things much importance. Jackie never got back to your
text message? I'm sure you have several other women in your contacts that you'd
equally like to f*ck — once. Then you'll get bored and move on to the next one.
Men treat women like interchangeable commodities. I do believe that most men
still hope to one day fall in love and settle down. But none of them will
unless they change their way of thinking and living.
Being focused on self-satisfaction will lead to nothing but
broken relationships. Real men are not selfish. Real men are just as concerned
for the feelings, needs and minds of women as they are for their own — not just
women's bodies and their sexual usefulness. Real men have a well-defined code
of ethics and respect that they follow.
How can anyone call himself a man if the last time he had to
confront another man — whether it be over a social incident or for business
purposes — was before he hit puberty? If you don't have the twiddle-diddles to
approach a woman at a bar in person and have a proper, intellectual
conversation, making the woman feel respected and comfortable, then move over
for the real men.
It's awful because women are becoming accustomed to such
boys and believing that these pansies are all that is left of our sex. Some
great women are settling for these fools and then finding that they themselves
have no choice but to wear the pants in the family because their “man” is
PMSing. All I can hope for is that the law of evolution will see the world rid
of these weaklings, these characterless, hopeless pseudo-men.
Ladies… real men do exist; there aren't many of us, but
we're survivors and will be around for a while. Come find us.
Written by Paul Hudson
A young writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur, Paul Hudson
(@MrPaulHudson) has been writing for Elite Daily nearly since the start. He
primarily addresses the successes and downfalls of love and life.You can follow
him on Twitter @MrPaulHudson
www.MrPaulHudson.com
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