Friday, 11 September 2015

How to cook Afang soup.







 

 Origin: Calabar Nigeria (Akwa-Ibom)

This is a traditional Nigerian stew made from the leaves of the forest plant Cnetum   africanum , known as afang , ukazi or okazi .
Ingredients:
500g meat (any combination of stewing meat, oxtail, tripe and/or bush meat [game])
1 hot chilli pepper, chopped
several periwinkles or any kind of edible sea snail (substitute shellfish if not available)
2 onions chopped
2 pieces of dried fish (stockfish) soaked in water and with skin and bones removed ? (for preparing your own, see the recipe on how to prepare salt fish/stockfish)
1.2kg afang leaves, cleaned de-stemmed, torn and pounded in a pestle and mortar (outside Africa substitute any strong-tasting greens)
450g waterleaf Talinum triangulare (or spinach)
200g dried prawns, crushed
400ml palm oil
water or stock

Method:


Add some 500ml of water to a large casserole pot and bring almost to a boil. Add the meat and cook for a few minutes on high heat before adding the onion and chili. Reduce the heat, cover the pot and allow to simmer.

While the meat is cooking bring some 600ml of lightly-salted water to boil in a separated pan. Add the periwinkles, cover and cook for some 3 minutes before removing the snails and setting aside. At this stage use a toothpick to remove the meat from the shells. Cut off the inedible 'foot' and rinse the meat under cold water. Sprinkle with the lemon or lime juice and add to the casserole along with the dried fish. Cover and simmer for some seven minutes.
Add the greens to the casserole along with the dried prawns. Top-up the water if needed before adding the palm oil. Season, cover and cook for some 35 minutes, until the greens and meat are completely tender.


Serve with FuFu or boiled and mashed yams.

10 KINDS OF PEOPLE YOU MUST NOT MARRY



 
He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favour from the LORD. Proverbs 18: 22. (NKJV)  This means getting a woman or man to marry requires due diligence. You have to look for the right person. This is foundational. You know when the foundation is faulty there  will be cracks on the walls. This does not imply that you must get ‘the right person’ as if when you miss the person you can never find another right person. But is it saying that it is good to marry. Marriage commands favour from God and men
Over twenty years ago, I saw this scripture and believed it and began to confess it in prayer every day. Not long after, I meet a lady and we agreed to marry. At a job interview a week to the wedding, the panel asked if I am married. And I told them it will be by the following week and they said the job could be given to me as a wedding present. That day I got a job to a managerial position in a glass manufacturing company. Marriage commands favour.
However, you must search for the right kind of man or woman to marry. Houses and riches are an inheritance from fathers, but a prudent wife is from the LORD. (Proverbs 19:14 NKJV) This means when you see a prudent man of woman you should realise it.
The following are the kinds of a  person you should not marry:
1.       Don’t marry unbeliever. Do not marry a person who does not have the same belief with you. Can two walk together, unless they are agreed? (Amos 3:3 NKJV) Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14 NKJV)
2.       Don’t marry a married person. "So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate." (Matthew 19:6 NKJV)
3.       Don’t marry an angry person. Make no friendship with an angry man, And with a furious man do not go, (Proverbs 22:24 NKJV). If a person cannot deal with anger before marriage, the attitude will be worse in marriage. Anger is destructive.
4.       Don’t marry thief. If your spouse is a thief your future is at stake. Watch out!  Zechariah 5:3-4. Some don’t only steal from men; they rob God in tithes and offering. Somebody who is not to paying tithes on his or her income accurately, regularly and promptly is not a good marriage material.
5.       Don’t marry liar Rev 21: 8
6.       Don’t marry a jobless person. That you also aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you, (1 Thessalonians 4:11 NKJV)  Don't marry an NFA- who has 'No Future Ambition'.
7.       Don’t marry a stingy person
8.       Don’t marry a disobedient person or a fornicator
9.       Don’t marry a fatherless person. Even if his or her father is dead, there must be a person in his or her life that stands in the position of a father. Somebody highly respected.
10.     Don’t marry a stranger. Find out where he or she comes from. Know them and let them know you. Don’t marry a faceless person simply because he or she shows up in church.
Then who should you marry? Marry the person that reflects the opposite of the ten kinds of person stated above. May God lead and help you. Amen
 
 Obi Ayo Loto is the senior pastor of Covenant Worship Centre, Okitipupa, Ondo State, NIGERIA. Contact: tobiayoloto@yahoo.com 08092813152 and 08053277907

CONTROL YOUR ANGER


Anger is a normal, healthy emotion. But managing anger can be a problem for many people who find it difficult to keep their anger under control.
Health issues linked to unresolved anger include high blood pressure, heart attack, depression, anxiety, colds, flu and problems with digestion.
But anger doesn’t have to be a problem. “You can control your anger, and you have a responsibility to do so,” says clinical psychologist Isabel Clarke, a specialist in anger management. “It can feel intimidating, but it can be energizing too.”

How do you control your anger
1. Recognise your anger signs
Your heart beats faster and you breathe more quickly, preparing you for action. You might also notice other signs, such as tension in your shoulders or clenching your fists. "If you notice these signs, get out of the situation if you’ve got a history of losing control.

2. Count to 10
Counting to 10 gives you time to cool down so you can think more clearly and overcome the impulse to lash out.

3. Breathe slowly
Breathe out for longer than you breathe in, and relax as you breathe out. You automatically breathe in more than out when you’re feeling angry, and the trick is to breathe out more than in.This will calm you down effectively and help you think more clearly