Pastoring requires being a leader, but not every pastor is a
strong leader. Rather than harshly judge these pastors, though, we need to
understand reasons they may struggle—and then prayerfully help them. Here are
some of those reasons:
They have never
seen strong leadership modeled. Too many pastors are still learning leadership
on their own because they’ve never spent time with a strong, godly leader. They
have no personal role models.
They’ve seen bad
models. When they see a poor pastoral leader, some pastors spend as much time
trying not to be that way that they sometimes fail to develop positive
leadership traits. That’s leading by avoidance rather than by intentionality.
Their training did
not include enough attention to leadership. I teach at a seminary that requires
a leadership course, but I’m aware that one course is just a start. Learning
leadership takes time and training.
They may not be
gifted for leadership. I do believe that leadership skills can be taught, but
some pastors are more gifted than others for the task of leadership. Leadership
is, in fact, a spiritual gift.
They’ve been
wounded in past ministries. Some pastors who were once strong leaders have
scars from previous ministries—and leading has simply become difficult. It
feels risky once you’ve been hurt.
They’re still
young. We’ve all been there: young, zealous (arrogant, even), and convinced we
can lead. It’s only when we mature that we realize just how poorly we were
leading. Some pastors may be in leadership roles before they’re ready.
They’re in
maintenance mode. Maybe they’re weary, or they just don’t want to tackle the
challenge of change. Some are more focused on retirement than on developing an
energetic ministry.
They’re unwilling
to ask for help. It’s hard for many of us to ask for help, especially if the
church has called us to lead. The result is leadership in isolation—and that’s
seldom good.
The church
structure may not let them lead. In some congregations, the structure of
committees and boards so handcuffs the pastor that few people could lead.
Take time now to pray that your pastor will lead well. What
other reasons would you add to this list?
Written by Chuck Warnock
Chuck Warnock pastors Chatham Baptist Church in Chatham, VA
and writes the popular Confessions of a Small-Church Pastor, a blog especially
for pastors of churches with up to 300 in attendance. Chuck is a contributing
editor for Outreach magazine writing their “Small Church, Big Idea” column,
writes prolifically for Leadership Journal and Christianity Today, and is a
frequent conference speaker on the subject of church leadership. He is
currently working on his D.Min. at Fuller Seminary.
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