The following tips will help you to love your wife better:
Appreciate her
Women like men who tell them how smart they are, how
attractive her dress is and such like words. If you never hug your wife when
she wears a new dress, or compliment her matching skill, then she will just
grow dull. Learn to say thank you when she compliments you too. Be the first to
note her new hairdo or a change in the furniture arrangement. Congratulate her
for the small achievements she makes at home. Appreciate the time she spends
making you happy and well fed. Did you tell her she is the most wonderful wife
and that you are lucky she mothered your children? These are the small words
that draw your heart closer to your wife’s.
Stop complaining
Women interpret complaints from men negatively. Do not let
her feel as if you have only been finding the faults in her. Find better ways
of passing your message across without hurting her emotions. Women have a
fragile heart and so you need to choose your words wisely. Choose the most
suitable context for correction of any mistakes you feel she is doing. Take her
out and talk about it in a romantic manner. Learn the art of constructive
criticism. Nevertheless, you do not need to say everything. If it does not
affect the family, then leave it alone. Be sensitive to her emotions and mood,
and avoid subjects that are likely to make her feel offended or hurt. Give her
time to meditate and relax alone.
Respect her and yourself
The perfect husband respects his wife, and himself. Give
your wife the freedom to free thought and decision making. Discuss issues
together and come to a conclusion. Do not pressure her to give in to your
egoistic needs. If she is not ready for a discussion, wait for a better day. Be
the gentleman you were when you first met her. Go back to the moment you
proposed to her and hold on to that gentleness. Protect her, but do not possess
her. Be the man without being bossy. Remember, she is your other half and so
everything you desire she too deserves. Respect your marriage and your vows, do
not cheat on her. If she is growing old too fast, then you do not love her
enough. Show her romance and never become too busy for her. Give her the
attention she deserves and you will never look for a perfect woman outside your
home. If you really wish to be the ever perfect husband for your wife, treat
every day as your wedding day and every season as your honeymoon.
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