Popular Islamic scholar and preacher, Sheik Muyideen Bello
has said it is dangerous for a Muslim to marry one wife.
In his words; “Allah said a man should marry any kind of
woman he likes. As a man, if you want to marry a fair-complexioned or dark
woman, marry her. Allah said we should start from two women. I know women will
not like to hear this. If you have to marry, start with two women, which is
what the Quran says. The Yorubas have a saying that a man with one woman isn’t
a real man. For instance if you are married to one wife and she over-salts your
food, you have just one wife. You don’t have a choice than to eat the food or
buy food outside.
“I have received so many messages from people that why
should I encourage polygamy. I tell them, is it me encouraging polygamy? Allah
said you should marry two, three, four. Allah said if as a man you know you
can’t take care of them, then marry one. Then if you are a me and my wife kind
of man, the implications are too many. As Muslims, four women is the maximum a
man can have, have two living with you then if you have two houses outside, you
put the other two there. The implications in marrying just one wife are too
many.”
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